Another stupid thing that makes me feel out this month

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Another stupid thing that makes me feel out this month

Just wondered if anyone else gets this.

Me and my best friend have been charting together for the last 3 months. She didn't have a clue about charting/ttc etc, so I taught her all I know. This morning she got her bfp at 10dpo!!

I'm absolutely thrilled for her, I genuinely am. But, a silly part of me thinks that because she has got her bfp, I'm not getting mine now. Like they are limited lol. That's sounds so stupid doesn't it!! Every time someone I know falls pregnant I can't help but think it reduces my chance.

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Congrats to your friend.

Yes!! I feel you!!!!
I totally agree!!!

I think that all the time.
Its not so bad if it's someone I don't know... But someone I do know and I'm like... I am out!!!

We need to try and bare in mi d that thousands of women have the same due date and tbe odds are in our favour!!!
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"Lizbet22" wrote:

We need to try and bare in mi d that thousands of women have the same due date and tbe odds are in our favour!!!
Xxxxxxxx

I like this way of thinking!

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awww, stay positive Angela! Look at it this way too - if you were pregnant it would be totally awesome to be pregnant with your friend! Smile

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"tink9702" wrote:

awww, stay positive Angela! Look at it this way too - if you were pregnant it would be totally awesome to be pregnant with your friend! Smile

Yes, this! I'm sorry you aren't feeling hopeful but that isn't required for there to be a BFP in your near future. :goodluck:

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I am in the exact same situation. My BFF just got her BFP two weeks ago, I am so excited for her, but at the same time I thought maybe this wont be my month now.

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*hugs*

It can still happen for you!! We have a group of 3 other couples we spend a lot of time with (since before we were married & way before kids) and right after I had my 1st, they all got BFPs within a month of each other. Not to mention a 4th friend who also did. So sometimes the BFP vibes are just in the air :vibes:

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Go drink her water!! Seriously, hope y'all get to share the journey together!

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"akpufa" wrote:

So sometimes the BFP vibes are just in the air :vibes:

This is true actually, there have been seven other people I know who have fallen pregnant in the last 2 months! That means it HAS to be me too lol!