I texted my mom and siblings the news a few days after I found out. I had already told one sister before that though b/c her and I were both pregnant together and both had a m/c recently so I wanted to tell her first. I called my grandparents and told them this weekend and my friend at work, my friend/neighbor and one other friend knows too. That's it for now. DH will tell his parents soon...just whenever he talks to them next and we'll probably start telling others after next Monday if I get good news at my u/s.
UGH! So I totally hate being called out when I'm pregnant and not ready to tell people about it. So I get a PM on FB last from a woman I know. She's a friend of a friend, we aren't super close or anything:
Her: "are you pregnant?"
Me: "No, why?" (blatant lie, I know...but we aren't best friends or anything and my own mom doesn't even know)
At this point I'm freaking out trying to figure out what step I missed. How did she find out?
Her: "you have a lot of pregnancy related things on pinterest and newborny things that aren't related to yarn" (I sell crochet and knit hats)
Now I'm breathing a sigh of relief. Phew, I didn't screw up!
Me: "Well, we have talked about having another one day. I pin a lot of stuff I like. "
Her: "Are you trying? I'm nosy". (WTF? Leave it alone! None of your business!!!!)
Me: "I don't really like to talk about stuff like that. It's kind of personal. Sorry."
Her: "That's all right. I will send vibes regardless, because everyone needs them".
Ok, so she was MEGA nosy but also nice about it. I just HATE being called out and I hate lying. Had we been close friends, I may have admitted it...but we aren't. Ya, So that all left me feeling like poop.
It is hard to believe that anyone would be that bold, I never would! If I find things on Pinterest, I like them and am planning on repinning them later on. I get so paranoid that people will see and start to wonder... I've noticed that my SIL has been pinning baby pregnancy announcement ideas. Wonder if she is up to something