Mine are totally deflated. And I'm not sad! As someone who squeezes into a DD cup because I can't be bothered to go to a specialty shop and get the F or G I need, I'm glad for this smaller feeling I suddenly have!
Mine have grown. My bras are getting uncomfortable, I need to go buy a couple of bigger ones. DH commented last night that he hopes they never shrink back! I do seem to keep a little bit of growth after each pregnancy.