That's what my "friend" told me today.
She also told me that I have no right talking about my morning sickness because she's not pregnant and it's not fair. I need to enjoy every second my head is in the toilet because I owe of to everyone who wishes they were pregnant to be grateful for every chunk I hurl.
Oh and since my pregnancy has been so difficult on my family, I never should have gotten pregnant and I don't deserve to have this child.
I am just sick. I've put three things on FB last week about my sickness and most of it was in question form seeking advice from friends.
Oh and this friend HAS a baby. She just turned one and she's still nursing. She's just mad at the world because she honestly thought she'd be pregnant by her six week check up with that baby and have given birth already and by now be finding out she was pregnant with #3. She was very unrealistic and somehow it's all my fault. Sigh.
OMG, how utterly rude! Ok, I struggled with infertility and wished SO hard to be pregnant...but at no point did I think someone who is already pregnant should enjoy puking. Nor do I think that someone puking and nausea wished they weren't pregnant nor do they not deserve that baby! WOW!
So I think it's safe to say this woman isn't much of a friend. If she's exclusively breastfeeding has she even got her period back? Who in their right mind would want to be pg at their 6 week visit? Wow...she seems different.
Great big HUGS coming your way. Try to put her negativity out of your mind and work on yourself and your family. You don't need 'friends' like that in your life!
Heather, you made me laugh when you said she seems different. LOL
And okay - awhile back when I was having NO trouble getting pregnant, but couldn't STAY pregnant for whatever reason it happened to be, I remember thinking, I'd cherish morning sickness. Atleast I'd be pregnant. Well, Karma is a ***** isn't it? I'm almost 31 weeks and had morning sickness for 27 of it. YES! And I complain every chance I get. And I take Zofran a few times a week. I had to cut down on it because it wasn't effective any more, probably because I was taking it around the clock. But when I first started on it? MIRACLE DRUG!
And can I just say that it's not like you *knew* it was going to be hard on your family and did it out of spite. You're PREGNANT! You're making a life! You deserve everything you want AND the ability to complain/ask/whatever about morning sickness. OMG people make me SO MAD.
And...okay for finding out you're pregnant at your six week checkup.. ahh ((((HUGS)))) I need Zofran too. I guess I'd better work on my attitude.
You all know how to make a girl smile. The past few weeks I feel like I have been fighting crazies off with a stick. After awhile I started thinking "what if it's me? What if these hormones are making ME crazy and I'm the horrible one???"
This girl has really been a drain on my for almost two years. I have bent over backwards to try to show her how to be a good friend. She's had a horrible life and I thought maybe I could show her real love and friendship. But.. Clearly I can't. I'm burnt out and beat down and exhausted. I'm done!!!