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StarShine65712's picture
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Lost baby

Just thought I'd update and say that they did blood work and my hormone was really low which means I lost it.
I'm not really surprised... I kinda knew last night.

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I'm so very sorry Star Sad I wish there were more to say but I know no words can take away the pain at this moment. (((hugs)))

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I am so sorry Sad

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Oh Star. I'm so sad to read this. Sending great big hugs your way. I hope the doctors can figure out what's going on. Sad

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I'm so sorry! Thinking of you.

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Sad im sorry to hear that

quonsetmom's picture
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i am so sorry. T&P sent to you in this hard time.

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Star, I'm so very sorry...

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I'm so so sorry.

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I'm so sorry, Star. Sad

MJDttc's picture
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I am sorry for your loss.

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Oh no!!! I'm so sorry!!!

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I'm sorry to hear this. Thoughts for you and your family. (((Hugs)))

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So sorry. I can appreciate what you are going through. I'm in limbo right now, but the doctor suspects I will miscarry. Sending you lots of hugs. I think we have a high percentage of miscarriage on this board compared to the number of members. It's scary.

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Sorry to hear this terrible news.

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I'm so so SO very sorry, Star. :cry:

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I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Oh Star, I am so sorry to hear this. Hugs, and prayers, coming your way.

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Star, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you have continued support!

~Missy

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Thanks girls. It started Saturday the cramping and bleeding.... I kinda knew then that I had lost the baby. Sunday the cramps were worse.... Went to the er and they drew blood and my pregnancy hormone was very very low. Told me my pregnancy wasn't healthy.....

Last night had really bad cramping bleeding and huge clots.... Went home early from work.

Same problem tonight. Bleeding so heavy... Cramping.... Hurting.... It's horriable.
The last miscarriage I had I ended up having a d&c. So bleeding out a misscarriage is scary!!! Huge clots!!!! So much blood!!! How much blood is too much??? Freakibg out.

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Usually they say more than a pad an hour, or large clots. But if you are worried about how much bleeding is going on, go back to the ER or call the Doctor or nurse line.

StarShine65712's picture
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I've been going thru about 2 to 3 pads an HOUR. I emailed my dr.... Maybe she will respond by the time I wake up. If not I'm going to call her.

Clarkton's picture
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I am just now seeing this...I hope it slowed down or you went on in to the ER...I can tell you I didn't bleed anything near what you describe with my natural m/c. There were some large clots but after passing that just regular period bleeding. Please update us when you can.

MJDttc's picture
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Oh no, I hope you have gotten a response or have gone to the e.r.

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Star, I hope everything is OK and your Dr. got back to you. I had a natural miscarriage once and it was pretty bad with the bleeding and the clots. They should be able to give you an U/S to see if there is anything left in your uterus.

So sorry sweetie.

quonsetmom's picture
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I know mine were over weeks so not that fast. Though one was pretty bad. did you go in? any news?

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I had a natural miscarriage and only bled really bad that one day. The other days were much like a regular period. Hope you were able to get through to your doctor and get some answers!

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Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry you are going through this! When I had my miscarriage and the bleeding and cramps "really started" I was going through a pad every 10-15 minutes!!! Basically I just sat on toilet as blood and clots were pouring out of me. Of course DH and I knew we needed to head to the er. Once there they did a pelvic exam and tried to somewhat "help" the clots out. At one point they think they had what "might have been" the baby. Well, when I left the ER 4 hours later my bleeding had slowed to a pad about every 2 hours, and I was still cramping. I continued to cramp and bleed at a rate of 1 pad every 2-3 hours for the next day and half until FINALLY I passed a huge mass of tissue - the size of my hand. After that the cramping stopped and the bleeding slowed way down.

Anyway, I have no idea what is going on with you now, but it is normal to bleed a LOT, and have HUGE clots. Also, if the cramping and bleeding is still bad, then you likely have not actually passed the baby yet. When you do, the cramping and bleeding will slow way down. If you do pass a lot of tissue, but the bleeding and cramping doesn't get much better please go to the ER - there could possibly be some retained tissue and you would possibly need a D&C.

:bighug:

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Went to the er again last night. Said everything looked normal... Said it didn't look
Like too
Much longer with the bleeding. Hope not. Also
Got something for pain. I hurt so
Bad last night. Like I was in labor. It would start every
Couple of minutes... Last about a minute and stop.

I'm sorry I keep talking about it.... Sad

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Hey Star, thanks for updating!! I'm glad you got something for the pain - yes, it does feel like labor...

I for one, don't mind if need to talk about. SOmetimes it just helps to talk and get out what you are feeling. :bighug:

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Star, please don't feel bad for talking about it on here. You NEED to talk to people who understand what you're going through. Plus, I've been thinking about you and hoping you're doing ok. *hugs*

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Star, I agree with the last two posts, you can talk about whatever you need to, how ever much or little you want to share. Don't feel bad about needing to talk about it.

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Thanks girls. U all are so sweet.

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I also don't mind you talking about it here. Unfortunately too many of us have been there and completely understand and know what you are going through. I'm sorry the bleeding and pain has been so bad for you Sad I hope the worst of it is behind you and things are better today. (((hugs)))

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"Clarkton" wrote:

I also don't mind you talking about it here. Unfortunately too many of us have been there and completely understand and know what you are going through. I'm sorry the bleeding and pain has been so bad for you Sad I hope the worst of it is behind you and things are better today. (((hugs)))

I agree 100% and I hope the worst is behind you as well. :bighug:

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Dont worry about talking about anything on here, we are all here for you. I hope it has gotten better for you.