I know many people have been through much worse, but I miscarried a baby at 13 weeks between my oldest two. Time has healed a lot of the pain, but I was so glad to hear this lo's hb today and know I made it past 13 weeks. I feel like I can largely relax and get excited about meeting this lo now. Just thought I'd share.
Congrats for making it this far and getting that feeling that you can relax a little. I've had a miscarriage in the past too, and I know for myself there are certain "points" that I like to get past and have things be "progressing differently" as well.