i have a best friend that i've been friends with since freshman year of high school which was in 1995 so we've been friends for 17 years. she was one of my coaches when my DS was born. things just seem have been going south for us. she's been trying probably just as long as me and DH had been and also had a miscarriage so if anyone understood it was us. I knew what she was going through with infertility.... We got into a argument last week because she invited to go to a Halloween party on saturday and i told her i wanted to go but if i was pregnant i wont go since i cant drink and if AF shows that day i wont go either she gives me a huge attitude about it and pretty much saying that she would never ask me again and so forth...
so my best friend of 17 years knows i could be pregnant by saturday and hasnt texted or called me to ask if I indeed am pregnant. Im still kind of upset about with her regarding what happened
its like we are 2 strangers we're on facebook and she never likes or comments on any of my status messages or pictures but she does on everyone else. she talks to me like she talks to the girls that she hates at her job
Im feeling really stubborn right now and dont feel like i should call or text her that im pregnant, she knows i might be shouldnt she ask? like dam your my best friend of 17 years and know the struggles
Im sure my hormones are playing in my stubbornness
any insight or advice would help