Not a good day (m/c mentioned) **update page 3***

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Not a good day (m/c mentioned) **update page 3***

So I had an u/s this morning. It's not looking good. I believe i am at least 8 weeks pregnant and there is no fetal pole and the uterus is measuring 5w3d. It's likely I've lost the baby. I'm devastated and have been crying all morning.

My midwife said my dating might just be off but the last time I had sex was the day I got a positive pregnancy test on October 3rd. that would put me at 6.5 weeks even if that was possible.

I have a follow up u/s on the day after thanksgiving so another 2.5 weeks until I have a definite answer.

I'll keep you all updated but might not post here for awhile.

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Oh no... :bighug: I'm so sorry...

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Oh sweetie. Sad I'm feeling so sad for you. Great big hugs.

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I'm sorry to hear this Sad

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I'm so sorry

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry.

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I'm so sorry. Please take good care of yourself right now.

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I'm so sorry, girlie. :bigarmhug: thinking of you now and on going.

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I'm so so sorry. I've been there and know how hard it is. Sad
Please KUP on how you are doing. (((huge hugs)))

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Oh Mel! I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll keep you in my t&ps! ((bighugs))

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I'm so very sorry *hugs* Thinking of you

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oh hunny im so sorry to hear that, keeping you in my prayers that everything is ok

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Oh Mel, I am so so sorry. It broke my heart to logon and see this. (((Hugs)))

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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry. I know how hard losing a baby is. I'm so sorry.

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I am sorry dear! Thoughts and prayers headed your way.

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I'm so sorry! Hope you can get some definite answers soon!

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I am so sorry. :bigarmhug:

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So sorry, Mel Sad

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Thoughts and prayers that it's just the dates are off, friend.. :bigarmhug:

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Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear this!! Please take care of yourself. :big hug:

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Oh, I'm so sorry. That has to rough. Hang in there - sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

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Oh Mel, I'm so sad to read this. I'm definitely keeping you in my thoughts and I'm hoping for a miracle. Huge Hugs!

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I'm so sorry Mel.

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Mel I am so sorry to hear this, I will have you in my thoughts and prayers.

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I can't even being to imagine what you are going through. I am so sorry. And I can't imagine how long those next 2weeks will go for you.

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Thank you for your kind thoughts and words ladies.

Wanted to update you that I have started bleeding and cramping today. I am feeling a bit of relief that maybe this will be over soon. The midwives want to check my HGC levels in a week and monitor until they go to 0.

I'm struggling with whether I want to TTC again in the future. I'm just not sure at this point, that's probably normal right? *sigh* ultimately I'm feeling very grateful that I have such a great supportive husband and two amazing children. And I don't know if I can go through a m/c again. It's pretty devastating.

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I'm so sorry. I hope that since it has to be "over" it can be over with quickly so you can start to heal.

I had a M/C with my very first pregnancy and I know how devastating it can be. Give yourself some time to heal emotionally as well as physically. Maybe down the road you will be blessed with another one if you decide to.

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HUGS to you - continued thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery; both physical and emotional. :bigarmhug:

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I'm glad that you can find comfort from your DH and your 2 little ones that love you so much! That's what helped me get through it too!

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Yes it is devastating and your emotions are completely normal. It's very raw right now and I found I wasn't really able to start processing the emotional part until after I got past the physical. I hope your body is able to take care of things naturally (if that is what you prefer). ((huge hugs))

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I hate that you're going through this. I've been there too and it is so devastating. I pray for peace for you in the coming days.

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Miscarriage is hard. I had one around Easter and it was the hardest thing I have ever gone thru. I still have a hard time. I'll be praying for ur healing.

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I'm so sorry, Mel, and hope you can focus on your family to help you heal. In the future, I hope you choose to try again if it's what you wish! :bigarmhug:

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I'm so sorry. I don't think anything said will make you feel better, but I am thankful you have support and love around you right now.

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I hope for a speedy recovery. im glad u have a support system

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Hugs Mel. I'm so sorry you are going through this. We're all thinking of you and sending much love and strength.

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I'm so terribly sorry for your loss Mel. I know how it feels and it was the hardest thing I ever went through. Your feelings right now are totally normal. Take the time and heal. I'm glad you have the support of your family. Hugs to you and your family.

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I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of hugs. Sad