WE usually alternate between my mom's and mil's. however DH's grandparents were sick a few years ago so we missed at my mom's bc we were going there "just in case" so now we are making up going to my moms (bc now my grandmother is not doing well) but this year we are doing BOTH. (FUN! :P ) we do traditional. turkey and ham at my parents (bc one of the cousins doesnt eat turkey) sweet potatoes (usually a casserole but I love candied ones!) a veggie of some sort, this year its going ot be green beans, and corn chowder? homemade cranberry sauce (though its not as good now bc we leave hte nuts out.. but its still yummy!) and TONS of desserts always a pumpkin pie and a pecan... BUT the other desserts vary. Ill have to snap a picture!