Well, I am still 3.5, which I was Friday. Baby's head is not fully engaged still. Sometimes I feel the pressure of his head and other times I don't. The doctor said sometimes the cord can be in the way and block the head, but he felt around and he couldn't feel the cord blocking the way. I go back on Friday (which is DS birthday), if I am dilated much more he will break my water. Doctor suggested walking to help bring his down. He didn't say how big I was measuring, he just said I was measuring, "plenty big".
I hope baby comes down soon! How frustrating. You sound like you're plenty done being pg.
I'm glad to hear that the cord isn't in the way, so that's good. Is baby laying anterior or posterior?
Is his spine on your left side? If so, that's how mine is and the midwife says that's the optimal position. I think it's LOA on the spinning babies page:
Left Occiput Anterior
Sorry you don't seem to be progressing, but it really doesn't mean much anyway. I've had labors where I've been at 4 for weeks, including one that didn't start until I was 7 cm, and I've had one where I was "only a 3" and went into labor that night. You could pop that baby out tonight. You just never know!