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awesome Heather! So glad you finally know you are O'ing! Smile

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Thanks ladies! If I hadn't used OPKs this cycle I probably would have thought I already O'd and stopped DTD...so YES, I'm very glad!

I have a toddler, so no dtd till after her bed time. Wink

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My OPK is getting darker already, woot! We DTD last night and then I didn't -TMI- use the restroom afterwards. Hope that gives the swimmers a chance if O really is coming lol

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Yay Sarah! We often DTD at bed time so then I just don't get up again. Gotta keep them all in!

I hope I O sooner than 36 hrs after my opk + or this will be another WAY long cycle.

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Yay, Heather, I'm so glad it finally turned! I always had 34 day cycles before DS#2, and they're super annoying...hope you O right away!

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Sooo... I had a blig glob of EWCM and I'm cramping. But I'm not HSO and OPK is still negative... I hope this means I'm gearing up! I would be thrilled/shocked to O before CD20 but hey, it could happen, right?

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Sooo... I had a blig glob of EWCM and I'm cramping. But I'm not HSO and OPK is still negative... I hope this means I'm gearing up! I would be thrilled/shocked to O before CD20 but hey, it could happen, right?

YAY for EWCM! That's awesome! I find that sometimes I get a lot, and sometimes no. This cycle I hardly got any...not like the slip & slide I sometimes get (gross, right?).

I hope you O before CD20. I'm on this late O thing this cycle and it royally sucks for TTC.

So I took another OPK at noon and it's definitely negative. That means my LH surge happened! Apparently I will O 12-48 hours after the surge, right? Hummmm...guess we best dtd tonight too. So much dtd. Blum 3

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Yay for getting that positive.

I started to get a light line yesterday so right on track for predicted O day of Thursday. Fingers crossed this month is a keeper. Previosuly when we first discussed TTC we said we would start in September because the doctor who did my c section and was head of maternity at our hospital told me there was no chance of trial of labour (after I told him I would be vbacing my next baby) unless there were two years between pregnancies. The midwives disagreed but they are also bound by his directions. We started TTC earlier as I heard there had been some changes with staff and a new dr, even though the old one was still there, but the new dr is fresher out of uni, more knowledgedab;le about current birth research and sounds like he is a full supporter of vbacs so we jumped in a few months early. My body knows when the right time will be though, I just hope it's this month

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I'm hoping to do a vbac too Wendy...if I don't chicken out. LOL. DH thinks I'm crazy, so I'll have to have that battle when it comes. He saw his ex give birth to DSD so he thinks that the c-section was SO easy...go in, an hour later, you have a baby! BAM! Well, yes, I guess it was faster, but the recovery is worse! Also, I sort of want to experience birth...I know, it seems silly, but it seems like a womanly thing to do. Why did you have a c-section? I did because my DD was breech and wouldn't turn.

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LOL Heather, well yeah I guess it was easier for him. Wink I hope you get your VBAC. It's totally worth the fight IMHO. I've had 2 natural births. It's all I know but I thought recovery was easy with both. The hospital where I had DS2 had different rooms for labor and then you moved to a recovery room afterwards. They all seemed so shocked that I walked from the delivery room to the recovery room within an hour of the birth. I think it's crazy that it was so shocking.

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Looks like I'm going to O early this cycle!! I get weird cramping for 2-3 days before and I started that today and also had some EWCM. I took an OPK and it's not positive yet but getting there. I'm guessing it will be positive tomorrow. But we're definitely going to start dtd tonight. However, I got a new job today!! which is a big yay. and I'm going to feel bad and be worried if I have to tell them I'm pregnant so soon after getting hired. I talked to my other bb buddies about it and they think it will be ok and dh doesn't want to stop trying either so I guess I just have to hope everything works out.

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LOL, yes, easier for DH is right. I have to say, recovery from the C-section wasn't THAT bad, but I only had one baby then and she slept a lot. Next time I'll have a 3 year old too! I can't just lay around every day. We had a midwife and she often said "next time when you have a vaginal birth...". They fully support doing VBACs, I'll just have to be at the hospital. No home birth for VBACs. I probably wouldn't do a home birth anyways.

Lynn - That's cool how easy it was for you. Did you tear at all or anything? Sounds like you a pro-star! Smile I don't expect it to be a walk in the park but it seems like something that needs to be experience. I always say I cheated with K. We thought we were going to have to have fertility treatment, but we didn't...then the pregnancy was easy and so was the delivery. LOL.

Whitney - YAY for an early O. That's so great! Congrats on the new job!!!! What do you do for a living?

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Sorry to jump in late, but I had DS1 c-section because he was breech, and VBAC'd #2. I wouldn't say one was harder than the other. But OF COURSE the c-sec baby was under 6 lbs and the natural birth was 8lbs11oz Smile I was up and shopping about 5 days after the c-section, and pretty much the next day with natural. But, I felt so good with natural that I totally overdid it and ended up making things harder on myself. Either way, I think you have to let your body recuperate.

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"Heatherbella" wrote:

I'm hoping to do a vbac too Wendy...if I don't chicken out. LOL. DH thinks I'm crazy, so I'll have to have that battle when it comes. He saw his ex give birth to DSD so he thinks that the c-section was SO easy...go in, an hour later, you have a baby! BAM! Well, yes, I guess it was faster, but the recovery is worse! Also, I sort of want to experience birth...I know, it seems silly, but it seems like a womanly thing to do. Why did you have a c-section? I did because my DD was breech and wouldn't turn.

DS turned breech at 37 weeks. I tried everythign to get him to turn but he didn't before I went into labour. I will have no ongoing help after next baby is born and hubby doesn't drive so a c section will be almost impossible for me to deal with. Hubby will get no time off and my Mum works and I have almost no friends locally.

Positive OPK thi morning, super positive OPK tonight. Sdaly we will only get to DTD twice, last night and tonight because I forgot my cycles had moved and thought I would be Oing clsoer to the weekend. Hopefully it's enough

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I've had two natural births and was up and about immediately. The nurses were way confused! LOL

I'm frustrated, CD18 and no O yet. Hoping it's today but no CM?

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Ahhhh!!! I'm so excited. I'm getting there.... and I have O pains, and my cervix is higher, and my temp went down today. I wonder if this is "Ovulation dip" I'd heard about but never seen on my charts? DH and I had a marathon encounter last night lol. It was like 1.5 hrs which is long for us "old married folk."

What do you think? The top one was starting at CD12. The bottom one was FMU this AM.
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Definitely positive Sarah! yay for a good enounter lol.

I work with families who have had their children removed by the state. My current job is supervising visits with the kids and bio parents and providing family support, helping the families towards reunification if possible. My new job will be working with the foster families. I'll be responsible for placements for foster kids, ongoing support and ensuring safety for kids in their placements. So I'm excited.

Used the pre-seed last night and it wasn't too weird lol. Had what I would call a positive opk this morning, it wasn't blazing but I think it's positive. I will do another one tonight and it will probably be darker. I'm guessing I will o tomorrow. I am so full of adreneline about the new job and babymaking that I only slept for 6 hours last night and just couldn't go back to sleep so I'm up super early for me. I also slept like crap last night. Is it crazy to be ttc and starting a new job at the same time? I feel a little crazy.

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Congrats on the new job! That sounds like a very meaningful one and also emotionally taxing. Not sure everyone is strong enough for that type of work.

Also, we are still cycle buddies!!! Smile How exciting. I feel crazy today too.

You VBAC ladies are seriously brave! I think it's very cool to try and do it that way if/when healthy for the baby and mama.

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I work in the same field though currently i am in a superviseroy/management role and will be going back to court work next week until the person who owns that role gets back from mat leave. Hopefully not long after unless she extends which is highly likely, i will be off on mat leqve of my own

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Definitely positive Sarah! yay for a good enounter lol.

I work with families who have had their children removed by the state. My current job is supervising visits with the kids and bio parents and providing family support, helping the families towards reunification if possible. My new job will be working with the foster families. I'll be responsible for placements for foster kids, ongoing support and ensuring safety for kids in their placements. So I'm excited.

Used the pre-seed last night and it wasn't too weird lol. Had what I would call a positive opk this morning, it wasn't blazing but I think it's positive. I will do another one tonight and it will probably be darker. I'm guessing I will o tomorrow. I am so full of adreneline about the new job and babymaking that I only slept for 6 hours last night and just couldn't go back to sleep so I'm up super early for me. I also slept like crap last night. Is it crazy to be ttc and starting a new job at the same time? I feel a little crazy.

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i had a vaginal birth and i was up and walking around we are not allowed to have a VBAC where i live, if you had a previous C-section all of your other babies have to be C-section. I think its kind of stupid

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I have a minimum of an hour and a half before someone hets here to watch ds so the hospital may have no choice if i tirn up ready to push or alternatly with baby in my arms

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That's cool Wendy! Do you supervise field workers or are you a case manager?

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"tink9702" wrote:

I've had two natural births and was up and about immediately. The nurses were way confused! LOL

I'm frustrated, CD18 and no O yet. Hoping it's today but no CM?

YAY for being up immediately. I was pretty much stoned the whole first day after my c-section. The nurse had to hold DD up to nurse because I was going in and out of consciousness. I thought I was going to pass out and drop her. Sad

Ugh, my O was late like that too. SO frustrating! I didn't really have much CM this cycle either, which concerns me. More CM seems like it would be more conducive to a BFP.

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Ahhhh!!! I'm so excited. I'm getting there.... and I have O pains, and my cervix is higher, and my temp went down today. I wonder if this is "Ovulation dip" I'd heard about but never seen on my charts? DH and I had a marathon encounter last night lol. It was like 1.5 hrs which is long for us "old married folk."

What do you think? The top one was starting at CD12. The bottom one was FMU this AM.
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1.5 hours? Yikes. Exhausting. 30 mins is too long for me. LMAO. I'm so lazy. I couldn't see the pic but it sounds like it might be a positive!!!

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I work with families who have had their children removed by the state. My current job is supervising visits with the kids and bio parents and providing family support, helping the families towards reunification if possible. My new job will be working with the foster families. I'll be responsible for placements for foster kids, ongoing support and ensuring safety for kids in their placements. So I'm excited.

Used the pre-seed last night and it wasn't too weird lol. Had what I would call a positive opk this morning, it wasn't blazing but I think it's positive. I will do another one tonight and it will probably be darker. I'm guessing I will o tomorrow. I am so full of adreneline about the new job and babymaking that I only slept for 6 hours last night and just couldn't go back to sleep so I'm up super early for me. I also slept like crap last night. Is it crazy to be ttc and starting a new job at the same time? I feel a little crazy.

Wow, that is an intense job. I'm pretty sure I couldn't do that emotionally. You must be a very caring type. Good on you!

We used pre-seed the cycle I got pg with DD. I checked my chart yesterday. I might need to order some more if this drags on. I hope it doesn't. LOL. I hope you caught the eggie.

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You VBAC ladies are seriously brave! I think it's very cool to try and do it that way if/when healthy for the baby and mama.

Well, I'm not sure that's entirely true. LOL. It just seems wrong to me to have an elective c-section when I don't need it. My DD's position was the only reason I had to have one, so if the next one isn't breech, I'm pretty sure I can deliver vaginally. I might live to regret the decision, but such is life.

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i had a vaginal birth and i was up and walking around we are not allowed to have a VBAC where i live, if you had a previous C-section all of your other babies have to be C-section. I think its kind of stupid

I hate those sorts of rules. It's ridiculous. People have VBACs every day and nothing goes wrong. I mean, serious things CAN go wrong, but that isn't always the case. I hate rules like that which limit women's choices.

AFM, We dtd again last night. It's getting old. LOL. EVERY day? Poor hubby. Anyways, my + opk was over 36 hours away now. I wonder if we're good to go or if we should dtd AGAIN. Le sigh.

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I changed my settings on FF and now it says I O'd yesterday. I like that!

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"Heatherbella" wrote:

I hate those sorts of rules. It's ridiculous. People have VBACs every day and nothing goes wrong. I mean, serious things CAN go wrong, but that isn't always the case. I hate rules like that which limit women's choices.

I totally agree with that. Not to bash doctors as a whole, but they can be lazy in the name of overcaution. It's probably just easier to do another C to get it done quicker and also protect themselves from the "what ifs" of what could go wrong.... but it's your body and your baby!

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"Heatherbella" wrote:

We used pre-seed the cycle I got pg with DD. I checked my chart yesterday. I might need to order some more if this drags on. I hope it doesn't. LOL. I hope you caught the eggie.

not sure if you have a CVS pharmacy in canada but you can purchase preseed from there

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I totally agree with that. Not to bash doctors as a whole, but they can be lazy in the name of overcaution. It's probably just easier to do another C to get it done quicker and also protect themselves from the "what ifs" of what could go wrong.... but it's your body and your baby!

Yes! They even said that with my c-section. They prefer people to pre-book c-sections because it's easier for them to book rooms and staff. It's also cheaper for them to do pre-planned c-sections as they don't have to pay overtime and such. It's really a shame that child birth is so driven by money. Sad

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not sure if you have a CVS pharmacy in canada but you can purchase preseed from there

Nope, no CVS here. Sad Back when I was TTC DD I had to order preseed online. Last time I was in the USA I picked some up for a friend though. Expensive stuff! Yikes! I guess that's why I never used the full amount!

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That's cool Wendy! Do you supervise field workers or are you a case manager?

Until Friday I syupervise field workers, but also I manage a case still as it is a bit more complex. After Friday I go back into a role that I focus more on mentoring, complex cases, my manager is getting me to do some coordination for a couple of things we are trialling and also working with staff on their court work, completing some changes of orders etc. Our office is in a state of transition right now so roles are changing and evolving a bit. I am just acting up in these positions though, my usual role is case worker.

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So I'm a little confused. I started having my normal cramping I get before 0 yesterday pretty bad, had a line on an opk last night but it wasn't positive. this morning it was positive but not blazing like it usually is. Took another one this afternoon and it is not positive :/ Still have a little bit of the cramping but not as intense as yesterday. Also had some EWCM yesterday and a tiny bit yesterday. CM is now watery. Do you think I o'd last night or this morning after I took the opk. Or do I think I missed the surge b/c I only started taking the opk's last night? I'm just kind of confused. With this 2-3 day O pain I get I never know if it goes away right when I O or if I O sometime in the middle of the days where I'm having the pain. My doctor said it's the cyst bursting that causes irritation. Anyway I'm confused!! If I did O this morning that's good since we dtd with pre-seed last night. If it was earlier than that, I'm screwed :/

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Do ya'll have Walgreens in Canada? That's where I purchased preseed. It is expensive.

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"angelover02740" wrote:

i had a vaginal birth and i was up and walking around we are not allowed to have a VBAC where i live, if you had a previous C-section all of your other babies have to be C-section. I think its kind of stupid

I had no idea you live so close to me! I'm in Rhode Island! If you really want a VBAC you could travel to Providence. There are a bunch of OB's in the area that will do a VBAC at Women&Infants. It's not too far from you if you really want to do it!

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Lynn - That's cool how easy it was for you. Did you tear at all or anything? Sounds like you a pro-star! Smile I don't expect it to be a walk in the park but it seems like something that needs to be experience. I always say I cheated with K. We thought we were going to have to have fertility treatment, but we didn't...then the pregnancy was easy and so was the delivery. LOL.
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LOL, nope not a star. I am blessed to have good birthing genes I think. I tend to have pretty quick labors. I did tear with both actually...even DS1 being a little guy at about 6.5 weeks early. He weighed in at 4 lbs 12 oz. I pushed both of mine out in the doctor's preferred position...on my back. That's actually the main thing I want to change if I get a chance to do it again...I want to try a different position to push and hopefully avoid tearing. I actually first was drawn to natural birth because it involved no epidural. I was more scared of the idea of that needle in my back than the pain of labor. That's why I laugh about the pro-star comment. Wink

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"whitney1" wrote:

Do ya'll have Walgreens in Canada? That's where I purchased preseed. It is expensive.

Nopw, no Walgreens either. I love shopping in the US!!!

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I actually first was drawn to natural birth because it involved no epidural. I was more scared of the idea of that needle in my back than the pain of labor. That's why I laugh about the pro-star comment. Wink

HA HA, too funny! I was pretty scared about my spinal too...but it wasn't bad at all. It was weird trying to move your legs and having them not move at all though. I THOUGHT I was moving them, but my eyes told me otherwise. Blum 3

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LOL, nope not a star. I am blessed to have good birthing genes I think. I tend to have pretty quick labors. I did tear with both actually...even DS1 being a little guy at about 6.5 weeks early. He weighed in at 4 lbs 12 oz. I pushed both of mine out in the doctor's preferred position...on my back. That's actually the main thing I want to change if I get a chance to do it again...I want to try a different position to push and hopefully avoid tearing. I actually first was drawn to natural birth because it involved no epidural. I was more scared of the idea of that needle in my back than the pain of labor. That's why I laugh about the pro-star comment. Wink

I had an epidural the first time around (also was induced with cervadil and pit) BUT after helping an anesthesiologist with a blood patch(at the last hospital I worked at), I will NEVER be able to get one again (God willing of course). I was induced at my suggestion and was a bit early (depending on which dating scan you want to go by) and the Pitocin kicked my butt/ also the nurse broke my water "accidentally" by checking me when I was contracting. I hope this next go round will be as natural as possible.

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Well I think I o'd today, OPK is a little lighter this afternoon, I had some wicked pains today, so hopefully we did enough. I am sick of TTC

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Well, no drastic temp rise today, and last night my CM was creamy. I'm not sure I O'd yet. Just have to wait over the next couple of days, I guess. Meanwhile, still going to BD. OPK is lighter than yesterday's.

I'm with you, Wendy, just ready to be pregnant and start obsessing about every aspect of that instead lol

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I'm totally sick of it too. I'm done for this month. I don't know for sure if I o'd yesterday or not. opk this morning was almost positive still. But yeah I'm done with thinking about it this month. I'm just going to worry about starting my new job and try to be better about opk's and dtd next month. It kind of screwed me up that I o'd early and I don't think we got enough dtd in but I don't want to stress about it.

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"ange84" wrote:

Well I think I o'd today, OPK is a little lighter this afternoon, I had some wicked pains today, so hopefully we did enough. I am sick of TTC

I'm SO with you! We dtd way too much this cycle. I'm over it. LOL. If this doesn't work, I'm going to be disheartened. Sigh. Past experience tells me it won't work though. Sigh. I'm glad to hear you O'd!!! Now it's just a waiting game.

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Well, no drastic temp rise today, and last night my CM was creamy. I'm not sure I O'd yet. Just have to wait over the next couple of days, I guess. Meanwhile, still going to BD. OPK is lighter than yesterday's.

I'm with you, Wendy, just ready to be pregnant and start obsessing about every aspect of that instead lol

Sounds like we're all O'ing in a row. It will be nice to obsess about being pg for a change, I agree.

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I'm totally sick of it too. I'm done for this month. I don't know for sure if I o'd yesterday or not. opk this morning was almost positive still. But yeah I'm done with thinking about it this month. I'm just going to worry about starting my new job and try to be better about opk's and dtd next month. It kind of screwed me up that I o'd early and I don't think we got enough dtd in but I don't want to stress about it.

Wow, you must have a big LH surge!!! I hope you O soon too. Get this whole dtd part done for the month. Smile

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I had an epidural the first time around (also was induced with cervadil and pit) BUT after helping an anesthesiologist with a blood patch(at the last hospital I worked at), I will NEVER be able to get one again (God willing of course). I was induced at my suggestion and was a bit early (depending on which dating scan you want to go by) and the Pitocin kicked my butt/ also the nurse broke my water "accidentally" by checking me when I was contracting. I hope this next go round will be as natural as possible.

I had an epidural and was induced my first two times. My last labor I refused induction, had a super easy labor, and no epidural. I actually want to use a birthing center this next time if I can talk dh into it.

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I had an epidural and was induced my first two times. My last labor I refused induction, had a super easy labor, and no epidural. I actually want to use a birthing center this next time if I can talk dh into it.

I'm with you....really want a water birth!

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So I just had to pee on another OPK and I wiped and I'm spotting... and I got this:

Safe to say it's positive? WTF @ spotting?!? (ahhh the pic is upside down)

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ooo my opk lines are getting darker, not quite positive but getting there..

Edit: ok adding a pic and what are your thoughts?

also Does B6 make you ovulate earlier or does it just tack on extra days at the end of the LP? because I should be about 3-4 days to O should the lines be this dark already?

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I think b6 can make you ovulate earlier. That test looks like mine have the last couple days!!

Sarah, yours is positive!

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"LaurenE" wrote:

I had an epidural and was induced my first two times. My last labor I refused induction, had a super easy labor, and no epidural. I actually want to use a birthing center this next time if I can talk dh into it.

In all honestly I think that induction just causes WAY more issues down the road. One medical intervention like that just spirals into a bunch of medical interventions. When your body is ready, it will go. I think there is a time and a place for induction but I see a LOT of people getting it done when I'm not sure it's necessary. I've noticed it's a lot more common in the US over Canada. We have it here but normally it's just when you get to be 2 weeks late or the baby is huge.

"FourMaybeMore" wrote:

I'm with you....really want a water birth!

Our hospital has HUGE tubs but won't allow water births! Sad Our midwife does water births in their center or at home but because I'll have a vbac, I need to be in the hospital. They did tell me when I was pg with DD that if you are labouring in the tub at the hospital and the baby starts to come out, they will 'advise' you to get out of the tub but if you flat out refuse they won't make you...then you get a hospital water birth. HA HA! I love my midwives!

"FourMaybeMore" wrote:

So I just had to pee on another OPK and I wiped and I'm spotting... and I got this:

Safe to say it's positive? WTF @ spotting?!? (ahhh the pic is upside down)

That's very weird about the spotting. Hurmmmm. Did you dtd really rough last night? LMAO!

Which line is the control line? I'm so bad!

"MJDttc" wrote:

ooo my opk lines are getting darker, not quite positive but getting there..

Looking good...but again I don't know which is the control line. I'm ok if one is lighter...

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"Heatherbella" wrote:

In all honestly I think that induction just causes WAY more issues down the road. One medical intervention like that just spirals into a bunch of medical interventions. When your body is ready, it will go. I think there is a time and a place for induction but I see a LOT of people getting it done when I'm not sure it's necessary. I've noticed it's a lot more common in the US over Canada. We have it here but normally it's just when you get to be 2 weeks late or the baby is huge.

I totally agree. With DD#2 I was guilty of it. They broke my water to induce due to overdue and baby size and I totally regret it. It seems like they induce everyone and I let them induce me due to, what I now realize to be, Dr. convenience. I am determined to try and do this thing as naturally as possible next time.

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"Heatherbella" wrote:

That's very weird about the spotting. Hurmmmm. Did you dtd really rough last night? LMAO!

Which line is the control line? I'm so bad!

the control line is usually on the left, but for mine, it's on the right because my test is upside down. they really looked identical in person. i would assume spotting would come when i actually O so it shouldn't be at the same exact time is the OPK...that's why i'm confused. we dtd this AM but not rough, though it has been 4 days in a row lol... i guess all i can do is watch my temps, but i am counting it as a positive for now. i'm extra hungry today and tired...i notice that during O time usually. i guess i'm just still shocked to be O'ing a full 1-2 weeks early so i won't be happy until i see a temp rise!

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lol yeah my opk pic is upside down too, the control like is closer to the blue end, the test line is closer to the max end.

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Mary, are you holding urine and going to test again? I think you are really close. I am going to workout and test one more time when I get back.

With my test, that's a First Response OPK. I've been using the cheapies and they've been dark for a few days now but the FR haven't been remotely dark until today.

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"FourMaybeMore" wrote:

I totally agree. With DD#2 I was guilty of it. They broke my water to induce due to overdue and baby size and I totally regret it. It seems like they induce everyone and I let them induce me due to, what I now realize to be, Dr. convenience. I am determined to try and do this thing as naturally as possible next time.

Yup, it's so often about doctor convenience these days, not what's best for the mom. That's what I liked about the midwife...they did what YOU wanted. That being said, sometimes I wish they gave me more direction! LOL.

"FourMaybeMore" wrote:

the control line is usually on the left, but for mine, it's on the right because my test is upside down. they really looked identical in person.

I guess the control line is always closer to where you dip the stick, right? I think yours look pretty identical on my computer too...so O must be coming soon!!! YAY for O'ing early!!!! Smile

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lol yeah my opk pic is upside down too, the control like is closer to the blue end, the test line is closer to the max end.

I think yours looks the same as the control line too. Perhaps you are both going to O at the same time! LOL

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took this one a few minutes ago.(well like 20 but pic was at about 5 mins).. DH thinks this looks positive. we dtd two days ago, and today. so heres to hoping, will prolly dtd tomorrow and the next day as well...

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