Awww, I'm sorry! But, I don't think you're out if you o'd today and didn't BD tonight. You still BD'd the day before O, right?
Maybe you're just joining the rest of us who are trying for a girl
we missed yesterday too.. (my am on my chart is really like midnight/1am) though Im going to head to bed and see if I can get him to wake up!
You go get him! Good luck girl!
Ya, wake him up Patience. Don't let him off the hook that easily! GAH! Also, isn't CD 12 early for you to O?
Totally did wake him up.....and total flop.... And on my end even more of a flop! Lets say that dh found a free alternative to ky warming......he was chopping habaneros at dinner....and rubbed his eye later...and burned it... I told him to wash his hands really good....apparently he didn't scrub long or hard enough to get the oils off.....owwwww! So hopefully tomorrow?
Heather of my temping cycles I've o'd on day 13 and once on 15.....
ugh! Always wear gloves to chop hot peppers. I've made salsa a few times and made THAT mistake!
Patience, hopefully if you get a BD in today that will cover it
I'm not giving up yet but... I'm spotting and very crampy like as if AF was here. I wonder if this is just going to be an annovulatory or cyst cycle. It's really weird so far. I wish I thought it was O spotting but I don't. DH so thinks I'm pregnant because we did it so much and the + OPK but he doesn't understand....no temp rise = no ovulation. I'm frustrated :dontknow:
Patience - Ouch on the hot peppers!
Sarah - I'm sorry. I hope you just have a late O.
Patience holy moly on the hot peppers!
Sarah maybe you were building up to O then it got delayed? Maybe the spotting is that O is on its way.
im back over here again depending when i O, i feel like the last one I hate being at the end of the month
I O so late you will probably still O before me. ((( Hugs))) Glad you're still in June.
Funny, I hate being at the beginning of the month! I guess it sucks for different reasons. LOL
Heather I always use gloves bc I didn't one time... then changed my contacts. oops! very frustrated my cm seemed to have disappeared. dont think this is going to be our cycle.
I didn't really have much CM at all this cycle...which has me a bit worried.
I just had a thought..... and I may be correct. 6 months ago I had a broken thermometer.....and I think I do again!!! Temped myself just now and got 5 different numbers. Until I get a new one, I am going to assume my OPK was correct and I O'd the next day. I still don't have a ton of hope because (on schedule) these feel like AF cramps and I always get them and the PMS that goes with them exactly 1 week prior to AF. At least I feel better about this cycle though
Karen, at least you're still in June!!!! You definitely won't be the last one, though.
Heather, you BD'd enough that I hope your CM doesn't matter so much!
Well if you O'd today they your furthast day out before o would be 2.5-3 days before o same as me
I just had a thought..... and I may be correct. 6 months ago I had a broken thermometer.....and I think I do again!!!
Have you checked the batteries? I killed my batteries once.
Me too! UGH! It was grueling!
The funny thing is I didn't have ANY EWCM this month (and I always have plenty!), if I hadn't temped I wouldn't have thought I'd O'd. So you never know!
Ok, so after this morning's temp ff thinks I o'd Sunday
Definitely didn't expect that, it would mean I BD'd the day before and the day of O...no way!?! The problem is my cervix/CM is not telling the same story. I just don't believe it. I never would have thought I'd O that early. I'm pretty sure me therm is working fine...I took my temp twice last night before bed and it was the same within 0.02 degrees, was a little lower than this morning, like 97.22. Took it again this morning right after I entered my temp (on my phone before i got up or did anything else) and it was almost exactly the same at 97.48. I guess I just have to wait and see. I hope it is right as my odds would be good but I just can't believe it.
i never really go by my EWCM I usually start getting that around CD 8 and i dont O until CD 13 im sure im not fertile for 5 days
Lynn - with your CM continuing I'd guess you haven't Oed yet.
AFM: CD12 and my body's doing nothing. I feel like I do 10+ days before O. I really hope things start moving along soon or I'll be off to July before I even O.
Ok, so after this morning's temp ff thinks I o'd Sunday
I'm not convinced it's right. I bet it will change after a few more temps.
Boooo! Just make sure you dtd a bunch to cover your bases.
Yeah, I don't think I O'd. I discarded Monday's temp because DS1 wasn't feeling well that night and we were up periodically throughout the night. I was woken up as late as 5 am and temped at 6:40. I don't feel that was an accurate temp anyway. Now ff has removed the crosshairs so we shall see what tomorrow brings.
Sorry your body doesn't seem to be cooperating. Hope it gets with the program soon.
Is there any natural way to encourage your body to O earlier? I don't want to wait until CD 35 again!! No signs of being remotely close to Oing.
I think Vitamin B6 helps you O earlier. Look it up maybe?
So...it looks like my thermometer was broken. Put in temp today from new thermometer and it gave me crosshairs. I do think I O'd, but I don't think it's accurate. I think if I take away all my temps, it will be the most accurate in terms of this cycle. I really did feel like I O'd which is why I had been so confused about the temps versus my other signs. If/when AF occurs, I am going to just count back my LP and see when my O date probably was.... until then, I'll probably start testing very soon assuming I'm like 7 DPO and I have a bunch of cheapies lol.
I'm really glad I'm out of town this weekend to keep my mind off it!!
Sarah, how frustrating...sorry your temps are worthless. I guess you can go by your positive OPK for an estimate of O. Hopefully you'll get a positive hpt soon. Then you'll know you O'd
I'll look into that. I actually picked some up to try to increase my LP, but I didn't know it could help you O earlier. Thanks!
Sarah - That really stinks about your temps, but I agree I would use the positive OPK to estimate O. Hope you get a BFP soon!
I thought B6 was for LP, but let me know if you find otherwise
Also heard some good things about B12, though I've never taken it. Honestly, I found exercise helped regulate my cycles and in turn my O comes sooner. Then again, I'm getting older now and I wonder if that has something to do with it... lol
Hmm, well research so far is that B6 CAN move up O, but more often delays it. I don't think I want to risk the delay. CD 35 is late enough.
I thought B6 was for LP, but let me know if you find otherwise Also heard some good things about B12, though I've never taken it. Honestly, I found exercise helped regulate my cycles and in turn my O comes sooner. Then again, I'm getting older now and I wonder if that has something to do with it... lol
Perhaps it was B12? Sigh...all these numbers.
So at this point, I'm really hoping for a late O...like Sunday would be good. I'll probably O today and then I figure I might as well move on to July. I doubt there are any swimmers still waiting on the egg to drop at this point. :huh:
I think I O'd yesterday, but not sure maybe it was CD 14. Ah I hate the waiting! And when I would be able to test we are going to be away camping lol So should I poas in the sticks?
Jenni - yes!!! Is anyone else still waiting? I'm going to start feeling lonely. :/
I am still here too! should O in 4ish days.
im still here to!!!! going to start BDing tomorrow night let the baby making begin
Im still here too. I probably won't o for another few days.
I'm still here, I think anyway. I'm confused and not sure I trust my thermometer...I believe the battery is going. But based on CP and somewhat on CM (although that has been inconsistent) I think I still haven't O'd.
I'm still here! I'm finally getting slightly sore ovaries and maybe a little EWCM, but I usually get fertile signs for 5-8 days before O (crazy, i know) so I'll probably be around for a while yet. I guess I should expect this since it's my first real cycle since the loss and I'm still BFing my toddler. Lots of reasons for a delayed O. But, we;ll be BDing to cover our bases.
I got ewcm for like 10 days before O last month! I had some creamy yesterday, but haven't checked today. I'm worried because they have my hubby working so stinking much that we don't get many opportunities to BD. I can only hope we get our timing right, but we are at the mercy of his job. I'm still nursing my toddler too, but I've always had crazy long and irregular cycles. I'm glad I'm not the only one left though!
well, I might be around for a while. Last time my cycle followed this pattern (right after I got AF back after DS3) I didn't O until CD30. My cycles are usually pretty regular, but not this time.
Me too. It was CD 35 last month go me, but hoping for sooner.
sooner sounds good. It's so frustrating to O late! especially this cycle. DS1 (almost 5) announced today that he has names picked out for "when we have another baby". He wants Eva for a girl or Zachary for a boy. Too cute.
I O'd late this cycle and YES, it sucks! I'd be expecting AF today if I hadn't used OPKs and known I O'd late!
Still clueless here as to what is going on. It appears I have not O'd...waiting to see what cp does today still. I also think I'm going to pick up a new thermometer today.
i feel like this month is going to be so long since i've been here and now starting all over, we started bding yesterday dh wants to wait 3 days instead of 2 days then then do every day after that until i get a positive, so this month will look like this BDing on cd 6,9,11,13 if i get a positive on opk i will probably do every day until i ovulate
Karen, that sounds like a good plan...enough BDing that you won't miss O and not so much that you get worn out. Sorry the month seems so long. I'm having a long and confusing cycle so I feel your pain. I hope this is your lucky cycle, good luck!
dh and i agree if this is a no go month than he is going to get a semen analysis done and see if everything is ok with him, im pretty sure i ovulate since my charts show i do every month plus i get a positive on my opk so we are not really understanding why its taking us so long to conceive
I can only imagine yor frustration...it just doesn't make sense since you have one DS and no trouble conceiving him. I know it must be beyond frustrating for you both.
sounds like a good plan, Karen. That's pretty similar to what we do.
Lynn - do you ever have a delayed rise in temp? Mine sometimes takes a day or two to rise after O.
My cervix is definitely open, my ovaries are really sore, and my OPK hasn't even started to fade-in yet. I'll be waiting until Wednesday at least. I feel like I'm really cutting it close to the end of the month. My others were all due in the first half of the month.