I'm sure we've all had some of this. Thought I'd start a thread about people trying to help during the pp days and actually making things worse. It's hard to vent to others because I know it sounds ungrateful but the reality is sometimes help is more stressful than doing it yourself.
My biggest example (though not from this week):
my mom offering to load/ unload the dishwasher so I can relax. Then asking me where every single dish goes. It was more work than telling her than getting up to do it!!!