The worst thing about this, is that it seems like at least one person a day on my facebook is announcing their pregnancies
It seems like that on my facebook as well Kristi, or they are complaining because they are over morning sickness and being tired. I just want to post suck it up Princess some of us would love to have those issues. Yeah I'm a bit bitter lately and over it, working on trying to get myself to a place where I can be ok with only having one child if thats what it comes to and trying to release some of the blame I hold against myself.
Oh gosh so it is not just me that has a news feed full of preggos right now.
I am blessed that most of my friends who are pregnant on my facebook list are pretty good about their pregnancies.
Trying not to get false hope right now, but the last two evenings my dinner has not wanted to stay down (I had a lap band placed 2.5 years ago and currently only have a small amount of fluid). The only time I have had this much issue was when I had my CP last year.
How long have you been trying for #2 Wendy?
My concern is the age gap being so big between DD and the next baby. I want them to love one another, but I've seen kids with huge age differences despise one another in the younger years. Plus, I guess I would like to get it out of the way too! Arrrrgh, feeling upset now lol.
Still, no AF YET!
Hugs to Julie - I hope July is your month.
Hugs to Wendy too - I know how you feel. As much as I was excited yesterday for our mutual friend, it was also hard to hear. And I haven't been trying nearly as long as you Wendy, it's hard when you want something so bad no matter how long it's been.
Kristi - that's good news that AF was later than you thought!
I'm still waiting to O, but no one else is so I'm hanging out over here for now! Somehow I'm the only person who has an end of the month EDD every month.
Aww I hope this is it for you Jodie!
Mel, end of month due dates are the best
4 more days until AF is due! I hope she doesn't show Time is going sooooooooo slow!!!
Mel, Is it bad of me to say that I'm glad you felt that way too? I actually tested yesterday after waking up in the middle of the night nauseous and had a BFN so then to see that was hard. Especially after last month. I'm so happy and excited for her and everyone else who gets a BFP but a little part of me is jealous at each new announcement too and its worse every month. I can't even imagine how I will feel when I get as far out as you Wendy.
I'm pretty sure I'm just waiting on AF to show up. After waking up again last night nauseous I gave in and took my one FRER this morning with FMU and it was BFN again. Add on the migraine that showed up today which was my "AF is visiting tomorrow" warning before Claire and I am not hopeful at all now. Just praying next cycle is normal.
Kristi- I have been trying for around 20 months now. Also on the age gap a bunch of my friends have siblings with 5+ year age gaps and they are close now
Mel- I am still waiting to O, I was going to start up July because my EDD is right at the end of June. Maybe I'll get a baby for my birthday. I know how you feel as well about our mutual friend, then on another group more lines popped up. I am so happy for them but want to cry as well.
Even though I am assuming I am out, I can't help looking at the ticker.
FX for you Misty!
Wow, Wendy 20 months sure is a long time. Don't give up though lady.
Well, I'm just over a week late now and I expected AF to be here this morning.... but still nothing. I'm not testing because I've already wasted enough dollar so I'll ride it out. I dreamt last night that I took a digi and it came up as 10 weeks pregnant - impossible haha.
I think I am out. Just spent some time in the ER and they did a test. They did not tell me the results. (knowing full well what was going on.) Still really angry at the incompetence of the hospital right now. Home and resting now.
Jodie, I hope you're ok?! How come you ended up in the ER and why did they not give you the result?
Rest up good.
Jodie, I hope you're okay! I absolutely hate hospitals. When I went in a week after my D&C in excruciating pain and passing tissue, I was left alone in an ER room for 4 hours before anyone came in, a nurse finally came in when I was screaming in pain and gave me morphine. They knew my situation, I was there to have my D&C done.
Kristi- I commend you for not testing, I also understand how frustrating it is to keep getting a BFN and not have AF. I'm still waiting for AF to leave, this is day 7. AF is so wonky after my miscarriage, I hope she gets back to normal or just stops showing her face!
I had/have an obstruction (was complete tuesday night) of my lap band. I went in because I could not keep water down at all. I have to go to a private clinic today and have a test that should have been performed yesterday. (I seriously had clueless ER DR or 3!) Kixsgc I was in the ER for 20hours all up and from 9am-6:30pm I pretty much left on my own.
I just HATE going to the ER, I'm sorry you had to go through it and had to be with idiotic Dr's. I would've started screaming at people! I hope everything turns out well for you!
I did not scream but get upset and teary eyed I did every time some one did come near me. (might have been the fact I had next to no sleep for over 24 hours.)
I tested again this AM and it was negative but I am only 12DPO I did have to sign a wavier to say that I was not pregnant to the best of my knowledge.
My RE is on holidays so we will see what happens.
Sorry about your ordeal Jodie. I hope you feel better soon and get all of that taken care of!
Well...I caved today and had an IC laying around that I just *had* to pee on lol BFN, which I expected as it was not FMU and I didnt even hold it very long lol I just had to get the urge to pee on something out of my system!! Other than that...not much to report. I have thrown up 3 times tonight...ick! I hate puking but I hope it is a good sign
Jodie, I'm so sorry you had to endure that. It seems hospital care everywhere isn't so great at the moment!
I've had a few bad experiences of my own and they make you feel nothing but stupid and like you should never have shown up in the first place.
Misty, I hope this is a good sign for you too
Jordan, I'm out of dollar now for a few days so that's frustrating in itself haha.
Well, my body is messing with my head big time. I think my last BFN was on Sunday and 2 days ago I was having crazy AF symtoms so I thought it was a matter of time before I woke up to her arriving. Nope! Still no sign at all - not even a little bit of staining, so very confusing.
I was out the back of my house on Tues evening and suddenly had the urge to be sick again! Sure enough, I was a little sick on my back patio. My bbs are incredibly painful, to the point I'm getting shivers from it. Today, the AF symptoms are there in my stomach slightly so honestly I don't know what's going on!
Kristi I hope you get an answer soon, maybe blood tests are in order to see if you really are pregnant.
Jodie, sorry you had a terrible night in hospital.
I will O either tonight or tomorrow I think, nearly positive OPK tonight. Still feel awful but managed to go to work today. I just had 2.5 weeks off on leave then so far this week i've had a day and a half off sick. DS has a low grade temp tonight so I am hoping he is fine tomorrow, this month at work is full on for me, so every day counts.
Oh my goodness! Jodie!!!! I'm so sorry lovey!
Kristi, my MIL swore she was pregnant for months with her last daughter and all the home pregnancy tests said no. She finally had to go get a blood test done. I agree with Wendy. Maybe that is your next step if AF still decides to stay away. Especially with you being sick and everything.
Wendy, I'm so sorry you don't feel well. I hope you still catch your egg!
I love all you gals. I really hope you all feel better soon.
I am officially out.
With my Dr on holidays that means no treatments this cycle. :/
Awww sorry Jodie. Hopefully a month of rest will do the trick.
Sorry to hear that Jodie.
That stinks Jodie. So sorry
Kristi I hope you get a BFP soon!
I'm out this month. On to July I guess. Hopefully its a more normal cycle for me.
Good luck to everyone still waiting!
Jodie, I'm sorry sweety!
Awww I'm gutted you gals are moving on - IF I do get a BFP, who am I gonna share this board with cuz there's noone else come out of the woodwork yet
I'm still in for June, just so late in June it may as well be July. Pretty sure I ovulated today, I had a really pos OPK this morning and it had faded to what is considered a negative by this afternoon. Glad I tested twice a day this month as I don't usually or else i would have missed the surge. I've since had a bit of pain which feels ovary areaish so I think it could have been ovulation.
I'm crossing everything for you Wendy!
DD was due June 29th and although she arrived July 5, me and my June Mothers formed a bond that can't be broken
I'm still over here too. EDD would be June 24th I believe. And I've officially O'd so that's good news. Only DTD twice leading right up to O but I'll keep my fingers crossed for now.
Jodie, hun I'm so sorry it didn't happen this month. I agree that perhaps a month's rest will help. FX for you hun.
Kristi, Mel and Wendy! I hope you all get your BFPs! I'm due May 29th so I keep hopping back and forth. If nothing else but to keep in touch with you all. GL and FX for you lovely ladies!
I have that same bond with the March '07 moms, We're still going strong with our FB group
AF has finally gone away and we've started BD'ing! YAY!
Hope you all receive your BFP's soon!
Another BFN for me tonight ladies
Gonna have to hold out now until Oct 21st when AF is due again. Crossing everything this is it and I'm still just testing too early!!
Kristi - was your last AF on August 26? Isn't that what you said? I'd start taking some OPKs now to see if you have even O'd. Or I'd go see the doctor!
Mel you an I get pregnant and we can both have babies for my birthday It's my 30th next year, a baby isn't too much to ask for a present right
Wendy, I'm 30 next year too!
Mel, please explain what an opk is and how it would tell me if I o'd last month? Sorry but I know nothing about any of that stuff!
Sounds like a plan Wendy!!!! Becky needs to join us though!
I'm 4dpo today and already too invested in whether this will be "the month". *sigh*
Kristi - it wouldn't tell you if you O'd already, but if you kept doing them it would tell you when you do O. It's possible you haven't O'd yet. I know Becky has had really long cycles where she didn't O until like day 30 or something crazy like that.
I haven't O'd yet hopefully today, well actually it should be today. At least we get one more chance in though, it's been a bit of a hellish week with all the sickness.
Kristi - Do you have long or erratic cycles? I don't use OPKs but I highly highly recommend temping if you have long cycles. I got pregnant with my DD day 60 of a cycle. This time I have been charting since March and have O'd on CD 19, CD 20, CD 38, CD 16, and CD 30 in that order. You can imagine how confused I would be if I was just starting to test at CD 28 and waiting for AF.
Wendy and Mel I'm up for that plan. You may need to clue my body in to the plan though so I O a little earlier than last month since you are both ahead of me already.
Becky, I couldn't tell you tbh. All I know is that AF arrives every 4 weeks and is never early or late. I'm super confused!
Yesterday and today, I've wiped a couple of times and my wee has been slightly stained pink. No bright or brown blood?? My bbs are still extremely sore and I've had a bit of diarrhoea yesterday and today. I'll be 2 weeks late tomorrow IF this staining doesn't get heavy like a period. Still crossing everything!!
Becky - I promise to hang out in June and July if you get a BFP and are due in July! I'd be due June 24th, but I tend to go early, but since every pregnancy is different and all!
I'm confident I O'd on CD 16 this month. It seems to be my new normal for now at least. Should make it easier to predict the next couple months if I don't have a BFP now.
Glad you are confident in your O date this cycle! Keeping my fingers crossed!
Stupid temps haven't risen yet and I got a positive OPK about 3 or 4 days ago. I give up
I wish I knew what dpo and all this opk stuff meant!
Staining still around for me - starting to feel that this isn't gonna be my month
DPO is days post ovulation and OPK's are tests that detect a hormone surge thats indicates ovulation will occur within a certain timeframe, usually up to 48 hours later
No AF here yet. She was due yesterday so I am hopeful! I plan to test sometime tomorrow. Oh, I am soooo excited!!
Good luck Misty!
Oooh ok, thanks Wendy. I've never use or tracked so I'm a dummy when it comes to all that.
Good Luck Misty!! Fingers Crossed for you!
Well....still no AF when I woke up so that is awesome. I definitely dont feel like she is coming...I feel more nauseous on a daily basis which is crappy but hopefully a good sign. Now just waiting for DF to wake up and get around so we can head to the store WOOHOO!!
Let us know how you gwt on
Full blown AF last night and this morning - right now, I hate my body.
I'm sorry Kristi