I feel like this is a common issue so feel like I can vent and probably find some sympathetic ears. I was ready to ditch BC this month. We're in the process of moving and DH said that he just wants a few months to have nothing going on before we try to get pregnant. I don't know that I really get his point.... I wasn't saying we'd leap into getting crazy about trying.... just going off BC and seeing what happens. And even if something did happen immediately it's not like a baby pops out 2 days after getting pregnant..... there are 9 months to be ready!!! Argh. Guess I'll give it another try next month.