I wanted to give you guys all this morning's update from this side.
Things are going as well as can be expected.
I was going through the responses from my original post, and I noticed that everyone has edited their signatures to be removed. I hope that this isn't in fear that I get jealous or upset at the beautiful photos of all our children. As many of you posted, we have known each other for almost 2 years and are very supportive each other - a virtual family. As such, I hope that you don't keep your children and their wonderful lives from me out of guilt or fear. One of the best things that happened yesterday was Amanda and her DH's visit with Kenton (yes, and you too Diane!). It was absolutely wonderful to see the joy and playfulness in Kenton with everyone else so surrounded by grief.
As for help any support, for me, pregnancy.org has been a huge support (probably gardenbug too) but I don't want people to think that their problems are meaningless. Yes, an accident like this puts other issues in perspective, but that doesn't mean that they aren't important to deal with as well! For example, I was thrilled to find out that KareninNH's appointment went well today!
As much of a shock Reed's death has brought, there are so many joys that he has brought that I wouldn't even consider trading his part in my life for the pain of his passing.
As for a service, no final arrangement has been made, but we had a discussion last night with our friends, one of whom is a mortician and dealing with Reed. We've decided to have a service at a local park on saturday afternoon, not knowing how many people will show up (since it's been all over the news and random people have been dropping stuff off) and we know that the EMS, police, and hospital staff will want to come as well.