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    Default Reed's memorial yesterday *JULY2007*

    I honestly tried to post something about it last night, but I was just so drained by the time I had a chance, it didn't turn out right.

    It was a beautiful service, and I do hope there's some pictures of the bubbles to share with everyone, cause I really can't do it justice! The park was just gorgeous, it was the first time I'd been there, and it was so perfect with the weather and setting and everything. There were easily a hundred visitors there to be a part of it.

    There was a display of pictures on a big screen TV, all set to music like a slideshow. And then lots of people making speeches and singing for Reed. Skyler read a letter he wrote to Reed, as well as one of his sitters. One of the most touching for me, knowing what everyone on the boards was up to yesterday with the bubbles, was a little story one of their friends told everyone.

    He said that Skyler had been asking questions about when people die- what happens, where are they, why is their body still here- like any child would. I guess he wasn't happy with any explanation they came up with until they told him it was like soap. A bar of soap is just a lump, just there, doesn't do much. Until some wind is blown into it to make it a bubble, give it life and energy. Then eventually, the bubble will pop, as all bubbles do, and the soap will fall back to earth, as a lump and the wind carries on. After this was of course when we blew our bubbles.

    After the service, Diane and I went up to give Sarah and Wayne hugs, and finally meet Gardenbug! We visited all together for a while, and then we were talking with Gardenbug and just visitng. Everyone was talking together so well I think we all forgot why we were there. It did feel very lifting afterwards, like it was ok to carry on. Well, I don't think that really explains it well, but I'm sure you get the idea. I only hope Sarah and Wayne and their family feel the same.

    I do wish everyone could have been there to share and just be there for Sarah, Wayne and their entire family as well as each other. But, I am glad to have been able to go myself with DH, Kenton and Diane. I do hope that we can see Gardenbug and maybe Sarah again before she goes home, but whatever happens, I'm sure we'll meet up again.
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    ! That is so touching what they did at the memorial. My heart just breaks for them. Thank you so much for updating us on how it went. I have been wondering about the service, and I just wish I could have gone. I am so glad you were able to go! Thanks again.
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    I'm sure it was very beautiful, I can only imagine.

    What a great way to explain death to a child. Well, not that it is great to have to explain it, but to help them understand, when an unfortunate time comes up.

    I am glad you got to be there. And I am glad Gardenbug finally got to meet one of us.

    Thank you for updating. Hugs!!


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    Thanks for letting us know Amanda. I have been thinking about them ALL weekend. I really appreciate the update; it sounds like it was beautiful.
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    Thank you for the update. I am glad you were able to go and visit with them as well.
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    TY for the update. It sounds like it was a very special memorial...I know I was touched by the bubble blowing, so I can only imagine how all of you felt.
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    I'm glad it was a beautiful memorial. I know that all of us were there in thought and spirit.

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    I can only say thank you for being there, representing us and then updating us as well. I was thinking of them all day Saturday.
    ~Amanda~


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    Thankyou for updating us on the memorial - we were all thinking of them. The bubble story was so touching -what an incredible way to view life - yet so sad at the same time
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    Thank you for the update. I was wondering how it went. Sounds like it was a beautiful memorial.

    Last night we had a beautiful sunset. Almost every color imaginable. It was calming and it gave me peace, made me realize that everything is gonna be alright and that Reed was smiling down on everyone.
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