I could have sworn I responded to this????!
Anyway, congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! What a perfect size to be born at!
I too would ask if you could just get on birth control for a set amount of time and then revisit the situation at that time. Maybe you will have changed your mind by then....(at least that is a good way to go about the convo) You never know right??? Anyways, that would give a cool off period. There have been sooooooooooooo many couples who do the V and years later with they had not....try and reverse it......so much of a pain I will pray for you