We dont have any IRL friends with large families close by and sometimes I feel so lonely. Even though im surrounded by my perfect kids I cant help but wish I had friends who also had a large family who could share the experiences with me get together for outings and play dates etc.
Anyone else the same? The only friends I have with large families are online.
stay home mum to 4 boys , 2 girls and a girl on the way
I just met a Mama who is pregnant with her 8th! I had no idea they lived so close to us. Our kids really hit it off, so did I with the mom. It sure is nice to talk to someone who can completely relate!
I also have a friend who has 4 kids. But on a daily basis, everyone has 2 to 3 kids.
Badwater Basin Y'all!
There were several large families that we were friends with in WA. It was so nice to have others to talk to who could understand and who loved having large families. While they are still some of our greatest friends they are more than 7 hours away so we don't get to talk or see each other as often. Here we are definitely the minority.
Chase-13, Trey-11, Layton-9, Zander-5, McKay-3, Declan-1, Keely born 9/6/2012
I have several friends with 4-6 kids irl It's fabulous!
dh ~ Jacob
dd ~ Ruth(11), ds ~ Jotham(9), ds ~ Caleb(7), ds ~ Evan (4), ds~ Ted (2)
I could have written that post. Not that I really have a big family yet. But, most people around me already think I'm crazy and I haven't really told many we plan to keep going. I would love to meet a few big families in my area.
big boy 12.8.07 @ 39+2 7lbs 8oz, 20.5" BFed for 13 months
middle boy 8.12.09 @ 39+4 7lbs 9oz, 21" BFed for 13.5 months
little boy 4.26.11 @ 38+4 6lbs 14oz, 19.5" BFed until 26mo and again 30-37mo
baby boy 10.25.13 @ 41+0 8lbs 15oz, 21.5"
8.16.12 & 12.16.12
TTA, but would welcome a surprise
I have a friend with 5 who is a really close friend. I have a friend with 7 that I met through a mutual friend, but we are not close. I have a friend with 3 whose kids are spaced out so that they get along perfectly with my 5 kids. She loves large families, even though she doesn't have one, so she invites us to her home on a regular basis and watches our kids for us on occasion.
Deb ................. DH Norm
DS Caleb, 13 ...... DS Patrick, 12
DS Isaiah, 8 ......... DS Thomas, 7
DD Cherish, 6....... DD Emily, 7\18\13 ....... Ripple, 17
William, 14 weeks, 4/11/12
I am blessed to live in an area where it really is the norm to have 4 kids or more. My very good friend has 5, many close to our kids' ages, and we do a baby sitting swap with them, even though it is a 45min drive, it is worth it. I have many friends that have 4 children right in our neighborhood, so that is nice too.
Rachel, momma to 4
dd 9, ds 7, twin boys Dec 09
I nursed my twins for 2years and 2 weeks! A little sad to be all done now.
I know a few but honestly cupcake7 I think you're probably the best large family friend I have IRL... There are several large families living around here but to be honest I don't think I fit in very well with them. Totally different family ethos and priorities which makes it difficult to have anything really in common with them.