What do you do to mentally prepare yourself from the look of horror some people will give you when you announce you are pregnant again? I know my neighbors are going to act nice...and probably go out and gossip about me behind my back (I feel like Im back in middle school with this neighborhood, the gossip, and the cliques...its flippin' ridiculous) and my family will be in full out outrage Im afraid!! Today I was talking to my mom about coming to visit us in June to see the kids in their dance recital, and I realized that is when I am due...and started thinking about having to tell her and I felt literally sick to my stomach! I have not been able to sleep because I am so worried about the responses I will get and how I will deal with it!! My skin is so thin...the hurtful words seep right in! Any advice!.....I have already started doing what I promised myself I wouldnt! I said I would take one day at a time and get past each hurdle as they come!! Since I dont even know if my baby will stick with me yet (hopefully it will), why do I torture myself with this stuff?