So I am not done having kids! NO NO NO ) I am not going to get the tubal done. I was supposed too in about 2 weeks but I changed my mind!
Wed. I am going to my ob and were going to talk about it! When I told her over the phone she was like oh ok! But I feel in my heart I am done but after #6 we will be. We always said 6 and no more. Hubby really wants to be done with the baby stage when he graduates June 2014. But I am waiting at least a year before we try.
We are not telling anyone we are having another. I told my sister in law but she wants us to have like 20! But that is it. I am tired of the negative comments and I made a goal to let go of the crap in my life this year and people wit negative views are one!
But I know you all understand and I wanted to share!!
I've backed out of a tubal 3 times now So I definitely understand!
Wife to Jason
Brodie(9)~Deacon(8 )~Truman(8 )~Sawyer(5)~Elliot(3)~Finn 3/9/12
It's terrible that people look down on large families. I think that it's wonderful that you want to have another baby! I wish I could talk DH into that, but there's just no way. I hate that he doesn't want any more children, but I guess I have to respect that. We can barely afford the ones that we do have, and that's with both of us working full time. I'd like to think that in the future DH might change his mind, but seeing as he'll be 36 this year and we have six kids (his, mine, and ours) I know he's done with making babies. I'm 29 years old though, and it makes me want to cry at the thought of NEVER carrying another baby again.
Krystal & Donovan - 12/2/06
Reagan - 10/2/02
Maximus - 3/10/05
Liberty - 12/11/08
My angel in Heaven 1/7/13
I've backed out of tubal and Vasectomy (for DH obviously!) before... I just can't do anything permanent... I think in my heart I definitely still want just one more baby, but I'm terrified of the changes it'll bring and I've never had such a big gap between kids.
So yeah, I totally understand this one!
I'm glad you realized you weren't done yet! I have only told my mom that we probably aren't done because I know she's supportive. My sisters keep making comments suggesting I should be done.
big boy 12.8.07 @ 39+2 7lbs 8oz, 20.5" BFed for 13 months
middle boy 8.12.09 @ 39+4 7lbs 9oz, 21" BFed for 13.5 months
little boy 4.26.11 @ 38+4 6lbs 14oz, 19.5" BFed until 26mo and again 30-37mo
baby boy 10.25.13 @ 41+0 8lbs 15oz, 21.5"
8.16.12 & 12.16.12
How exciting! I am really regretting dh's vasectomy so definitely good you realized beforehand!
DD1- July 2004
DD2- April 2006
DS1- December 2009
DS2- August 2011
Good for you!
Deb ................. DH Norm
DS Caleb, 13 ...... DS Patrick, 12
DS Isaiah, 8 ......... DS Thomas, 7
DD Cherish, 6....... DD Emily, 7\18\13 ....... Ripple, 17
William, 14 weeks, 4/11/12
Good for you. Only you and dh know what is best for your family. Who cares about the naysayers!
Rachel, momma to 4
dd 9, ds 7, twin boys Dec 09
I nursed my twins for 2years and 2 weeks! A little sad to be all done now.