I've been kind of wondering how many set out to have a big family and how many just had it kind of happen. I'll admit, it's been set off by DS1 announcing he wants 11 babies in our family... then proceeding to tell me what gender the others are supposed to be and what months they're supposed to be born. If it weren't for DH (who doesn't really want a big family) he might be able to talk my into it. My original plan was 4 but now I'm thinking 5-6 sounds better. It all depends on how many I can talk DH into having. He kind of wants to stop at 3.