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    I totally understand! I had two losses after my 2nd DS. When my u/s showed a healthy baby boy I was thrilled! I was just so happy to be pregnant and I really didn't care about the sex. I told someone at work and she got a sad look on her face, hugged me and said "I'm sorry". I was in shock. Why would she be sorry I was having a healthy baby? We didn't find out the sex of DS4 but all I heard during my pregnancy was "oh, maybe you'll get your girl this time!" . It was irritating. When we found out #5 was another boy, we got even more rude comments. A friend of mine said "Well, I guess I have to take back the girl outfit I got. I had high hopes." Like I failed or something. My sweet baby boy was not a mistake! He was a blessing! Now we hear all the time "Are you going to try for a girl?". I just say, "We'd like one more baby." Would I like to have a girl? I'm not going to lie, I'd love to have a girl. But are we having another baby just to try for one? No. I adore my boys and feel incredibly blessed to have them. If God blesses us with a girl, that's great. If we have another boy, that's great too. I just wish people would think before they speak.
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    People should definitely learn to keep their comments to themselves. I feel kind of the opposite of you though, as I wanted girls every time I got pregnant, and thankfully after two boys I got my girl... just to get pregnant again (a whoops!) and it's another boy! It took me a while to get over the sadness. People are just different I guess... but should definitely learn when to keep their traps shut about others personal family choices.
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    I don't know why people just can't keep the negative thoughts to themselves. I do think it'd be similar with 3 girls and a boy though. When I was pregnant this last time before we found out the sex I got all sorts of comments about 'poor Josiah, he'll be surrounded by girls!' and comments about my 'poor dh' and we didn't even *know* the gender yet. I can't imagine if we actually found out it was another girl. I had no real preference, we had a girl name and girl clothes sure are cute but at the same time I thought it'd be nice for ds to get a brother and we're also in a 3 bedroom so it worked out nice that way but I wouldn't have been upset with another girl either.
    I do love my little boys, I always wanted all girls before I had kids but there's just something about my little boys that just melts my heart
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    I too get it. I have a DD - the oldest then a DS and 2 DSS's so when we had our last together and we found out it was a boy my own mother said, "oh, well, I guess that's not much to celebrate then. I mean we have a ton of boys". I have 1 neice and 3 nephews - hence the "ton of boys" comment. I know she didn't mean it the way it came out but still - ugh.

    That didn't help my feelings either. I too wanted a girl. I was bummed when the u/s showed boy (actually I think I cried a little). It's not that I didn't want a boy I just wanted a girl. Like Krystal it took me some time to get over it.

    Bleh.

    Whatever. Mason is awesome and I wouldn't change him for anything.

    I would, if I could, try for a girl One more would be great (actually one more of either would be great). But alas, we are done.

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