I was just lurking today and came across a lot of posts the mod put up and I have to say the information was awesome. Such as the post about Ear Infections. She posted a link and the information explained says that whenever fluid is present that is Otitis Media but that fluid may or may not be infected. So for Eli he pretty much had Otits Media constantly for 1 1/2 until he got tubes it was just not infected most of the time but caused hearing loss . As our little ones approach talking more and more I just wanted to say you ladies should really check it out.