Worried :(

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Kittydakat's picture
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Worried :(

So today I found out my nan has ovarian cancer Sad She means soooo much to me, my heart is breaking. We don't know how far along it is or anything yet, she has the scan next week but knowing my nan she has probably been sitting on this for a while, she has been suffering from fluid on the stomach and has been losing a lot of weight. I feel awful Sad I want to be there for her and for my family. Like my friend said, we like to think our grans are invincible. She is the one I talk to for hours on end, I talk to her more than I talk to my mum (I talk to my mum a lot). I want my husband back so I can have a cuddle and be made to feel better, I can't lose my husband and my nan, I just can't Sad I mean I've already lost him - I don't know who this person is who is here right now but I just want him back, the kind, loving, caring guy I married. What has happened???????

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Oh and please no mention of this on fb as my cousins don't know yet.

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:bigarmhug: I'm so sorry. It's hard watching loved ones go through illnesses, but it's even harder when they are such a dear confidant. Praying she beats this.

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:bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

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:openarms: Hugs and prayers being said.:openarms:

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Sorry about the sad news, it is so hard to be far away when you want to be there for family members. Mine is accross the world too and it was so hard when my grandma got sick rather suddenly. I wish I could have seen her one more time. Anyway, sorry I'm not trying to make this about me. I know she knows that you wish you could be there. Hopefully it was caught early. Hugs.

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Just to update on this, she is going to have chemotherapy - apparently they told her today without it it would only be a few more months, I will hopefully go to visit once we are settled in VA Sad

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"Kittydakat" wrote:

Just to update on this, she is going to have chemotherapy - apparently they told her today without it it would only be a few more months, I will hopefully go to visit once we are settled in VA Sad

I'm so sorry. I will keep her in our prayers. Praying to move goes fast so you can go visit.

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:bigarmhug: I am so sorry Sad

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Oh Kat I'm sorry :(. I really really hope you are able to make it out there to see her again soon.