This is goodbye (m/c mentioned)

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This is goodbye (m/c mentioned)

After a little spotting, and a blood test that showed low progesterin levels, they did an ultrasound and found no heartbeat. We most likely lost the baby within the last week at around 10 1/2 weeks.

I'll miss you guys. Good luck and stay healthy.

Cari

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Cari, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Oh, Cari, I am so sorry. Sad I can only imagine how heartbreaking this is for you and your family. You will be in my thoughts as you heal.

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Oh No! How upsetting. I am so sorry foryour loss!

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I'm so sorry for your loss. :bigarmhug:

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I'm so sorry to hear abut your loss. We will all be thinking about you.

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That is so sad. I'm so sorry for your loss. Lots of T&P.

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Cari I am SO sorry you are going through this. I have had 2 m/c's and it SUCKS!!!! I am thinking of you and wish you all the best!!!

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Cari I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of prayers to you.

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I'm so sorry for your loss

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Had the D&C today...actually, I'm surprised I don't feel (physically) worse. My sister made it sound like I would be in misery for months. Maybe she just had an unlucky experience.

I'm very sad, but if I admit it to myself, the last few weeks I have been struggling with not feeling pregnant...my belly didn't seem to be growing (or bloating up) like it had the first time. I even told people that I wasn't having any symptioms and didn't really even feel pregnant. I guess that's a bad sign. So I suppose I'm not quite as shocked as I could be. But the baby was fully developed to a 10 week size, so the heart didn't stop until a few days ago, but I suppose my body just knew it was coming.

I still wish with all my heart it hadn't happened, but that baby will come back to me when the time is right and he or she is ready to grow into a healthy happy baby.

Cari

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Cari, I am so sorry. Sad

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Cari I am so glad things went well with the D&C. My first pregnancy was a M/C and I had a D&C - BEST choice I ever made because it was painless and over quickly. Sending positive thoughts for the next little one to join your family. Smile

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I am so sorry. Ive been through it too, and it is horrible. Big hugs!