When to tell?????
After the Dr appt on 8/16 I will go to store & buy matching "I'm the big brother" & "I'm the big sister" tshirts.
Should I have Owen & Brooke wear the tshirts to my MIL bday dinner at our house & invite my parents (which would not seem odd) on 8/18? I will be 10 weeks & that will just be the Grandparents OR should I wait a whole month until 9/23? I will be 14 weeks & I can have them wear the shirts at Owen's birthday party & everyone would be there BUT I would have to wait a whole month (not to mention I am a small girl & I might totally show before that where it is super obvious but maybe not).