First off I just want to say thanks for everyone's reassurance.
I went to the doctor today, they didn't do much but answer my 1000 questions, take blood and give me a pap. The doc said my pain could be any number of things, so I'm HOPING that it's not another ectopic. Only thing is - during the pap on the right side (which would be the other side, had the ectopic on the left), it felt kind of... I don't know, like she was digging her hand into my fat. Now, I'm by no means skinny.. and when she asked if it hurt, I said it didn't feel good. But I don't know if it was her pushing too hard, or something else.
But now I get to worry about the OTHER side. yay! I'm just a great big basket of worry and nerves.
However, she put my due date at April 6th, so I will be jumping boards.
Good luck to you all.