I won't lie I'm getting discouraged. This is cycle 3 of clomid after my last m/c and its gonna be a bust. Before that we tried for 6 mos on our own after m/c and then did 2 clomid cycles before having the other m/c. I really thought the clomid would work again. But I'm so tired of the awful side effects! If I could be sure it'd eventually work I'd do it for as long as I had too dont get me wrong. But 3 mos is the most my MW thought it should take that's considered a good trial on it. I am going to ask to try Femara next month. It's supposed to be easier on you. But I'm wondering if I should ask to cd referred to an RE. It would be a pain since the closest is 1.5 he's away and dh will have trouble getting off work. Plus neither my MW nor the OBs think I need to go. They think eventually it'll work if I just keep on trying. I've been pg twice in the past 14 mos which ended in m/c and they consider that fertile. Not to mention I have 6 successful pgs/kids. I'm not getting any younger though I'm 36.5 and my eggs aren't young anymore. I'm afraid of waiting too long to get an appt (and who knows how long that will take), then for them to do testing, etc, before I can get a plan from them to ttc.