Do your LOs insist that one parent do things over the other? The girls insist I do EVERYTHING! It is SOOOOOO annoying. It's not like DH is never around or plays with them. He gets home around 4-4:30 and spends SOOOOO much time with them. They LOVE to play with him, but if they need to go to the bathroom, MOMMY must do it, if they need more milk, MOMMY must get it, if they drop a fork, MOMMY must get it, MOMMY must get them ready for bed, etc... I think you get the idea.
I used to give in because I love doing things for them. But man oh man, it is getting old. So now when DH starts to do something and they say "No mommy" we are just letting DH finish it. I hope that they get out of this quickly. I feel bad for DH because he WANTS to do these things but they don't want him to. Luckily he's taking it much better then I would if the shoe was on the other foot.