DH's parent's FINALLY called him last night. This is the first time they called in over a week since his BFF since grade school passed away. And they only called because he didn't called them on Sunday. It litterly took his mother almost 5 minutes of talking before she even brought it up. When DH told her that he was upset that his sister e-mailed him and that they never called, her response was "Sorry" with an attitude. Then she said "You could have called us if you wanted to talk" He said "Well, luckly JJ has been calling me to keep me informed and Tara's family has been calling to see how I was doing. At least some of my family has been thinking of me." Yeah, that didn't make her too happy! The services are Satuday and we already have my mother lined up to come to visit to watch the girls so we can make the day trip. It's 4.5 - 5 hours ONE WAY! When she said we could stay there and DH told her that "Tara's mother is coming. Her family has been very supportive thru this" I think that really got to her! DH's father did give a sincear appology. He said that he was sorry and that he has no excuse for not calling and that he was very unthoughtful. So at least one of his parent's knows they hurt DH.
So anyway, we are headed to the services on Saturday, which will be a LONG day. I don't even know if we will stop at his parent's house or see them. I am hoping we don't, but I'm leaving it up to DH.