I think most of you know that I have a really really really really b!t@hy MIL who makes me crazy and causes a lot of strife in my life.
So I have a small issue. My DH wants his boys and my DS#1 to go spend the night at MIL's house. I don't feel comfortable sending my DS#1 over there because she doesn't really like my son. She calls him names like "cry baby" and always blames him for everything even when it's obviously someone else's fault. She's even told me that she used to "resent" him. Who says that??? It's just because he's not biologically related to DH it's so stupid.
She's like that though. My DH's uncle has 3 bio kids and 3 adopted kids. She always distinguishes betwee the bio vs. the adopted like somehow the adopted ones are less.
My point is that DH won't send my DSS's for a sleep over without my DS#1. But I'm just not comfortable with MIL the way she acts with my son. But I don't think it's fair for my DSS's to be punished because MIL is such a cow. She's great to them and they should be allowed to go.
I've talked to my DS and he says he wants to go with his brothers but he's scared of "Nana" and that she'll make him cry. He said he would just let the other boys go without him.
Ugh. My MIL is a stupid, self centered, ignorant, vomitous cow. She's caused so much stress in my life and marriage and this is just another straw, ya know? It's no wonder my SIL is so messed up. My DH has his issues (very obviously cause by MIL) too.
Look, I'm not perfect and I have some issues of my own but this woman does more harm than good.
What should I do about the sleep over thing???