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XP Heartbroken (loss mentioned)

I woke up at 3:30 this am bleeding. I knew my baby was gone. I had been telling DH all day yesterday that something was wrong. No cramping or spotting, just intuition. Called my doc's answering service and was told to go into ER. I think mainly because I'm Rh-. They did bloodwork and my level was only 8. Small blessing that it happened on it's own this time and I don't need a d&c as with my other 2 losses. Just so sad. My friend texted me and told me that she knew my baby was with my Grandma. That helped. Now just praying for peace and hoping my doc gives the go ahead to start trying again right away.

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So sorry Belinda... try to keep your head up

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Aw, Belinda, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sad We're all here for you!

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Oh no Belinda ((HUGS)) Sad I am so very sorry for your loss, please take care! x

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Oh Belinda, I am so sorry. :bigarmhug: Thinking of you.

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Sorry for you loss Sad

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I'm so very sorry to hear this Sad Sending you big hugs...

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Sad I'm sorry...

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Thanks ladies. Waiting on a call back from my OB. Hopefully, I won't have to go in. Doing okay. Cramps are kinda bad. Never really had cramps with the d&c's. Just glad DH is off today so I can rest.

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I am so glad your DH is home with you today! Big hugs belinda!

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Sooooo Sorry Belinda! (((HUGS)))

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I'm sorry for your loss Belinda :bigarmhug: Hope you get the go ahead like you are hoping for.

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I'm so sorry to hear that Belinda Sad My thoughts are with you.

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Oh no Belinda. Sad I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Maybe you can buy a special ornament this year for your angel.

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OH Belinda I am so sorry to read this ~ please know that I am thinking of you as you mourn your loss. Your baby was loved, and I wish you great peace as you mourn their embrace into the light.

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Thanks ladies. Yes, my baby was loved and I know they are safe with Jesus Smile Kayla-I had my 2nd m/c while we were on vacation Dec of 2004. I remember we went into a little shop in the mountains and I bought a crystal angel ornament holding a red heart. That baby was also due in July and ruby is the July birthstone. It now hangs on our tree as a reminder of two babies Smile

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"belindab" wrote:

Thanks ladies. Yes, my baby was loved and I know they are safe with Jesus Smile Kayla-I had my 2nd m/c while we were on vacation Dec of 2004. I remember we went into a little shop in the mountains and I bought a crystal angel ornament holding a red heart. That baby was also due in July and ruby is the July birthstone. It now hangs on our tree as a reminder of two babies Smile

Having those mementos really does help, doesn't it? I also have an angel ornament that is holding a heart. It was a gift from my parents and sisters. I feel like it's important to recognize our angels in heaven and it's comforting to have something special that recognizes they are loved.

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Oh I'm so sorry Belinda. Huge hugs your way. I am glad your DH could be home with you.

Thinking of you and sending lots of love.

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I am so sorry Belinda!! I hope you feel better soon.. If it helps I had a m/c with my May 2010 baby but I got pg only 2 weeks later and now have a June 2010 baby. I hope it happens for you very quickly! x

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Belinda, I am so so sorry to read this. One m/c is too many. I hope for peace for you.

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Thank you so much ladies. I really appreciate your kind words!

"IliLexy" wrote:

If it helps I had a m/c with my May 2010 baby but I got pg only 2 weeks later and now have a June 2010 baby. I hope it happens for you very quickly! x

This does give me hope! Thank you!