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sandy1007's picture
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Suprise

Well breastfeeding is def not a way to prevent pregnancy. Tested this morning and have a very faint +. I am scared sh**less. 2 babies under a yr old. I'm so scared about how hard that will be. It is still a hush hush thing as with my history of mc this is not a set in stone type thing. I am going to retest in a couple days and see if it gets darker. I need opinions though. Do I wait until after the next test to contact my Dr or go ahead now? They had me on progest. suppositories with Dalton shortly after I found out I was preg with him. Plus I am not sure of the exact due date either as I was due to start on this past Sunday but with it only showing faintly today and being neg on Mon I would say it would put my due date a week later. Plus my cycle has been all messed up since I've had Dalton. Any opinions would be great as I can't really think straight right now.

Another stresser I have going on is that the other office girl is getting married in May. She made it very clear that if I was to end up preg and due around her wedding she would not be happy. I really love her to death and I don't want to make her mad at all. I spoke to my manager this morning as she has been questioning me as to if I was preg and she assured me that there would be coverage for the other girl during her wedding but I am still scared to say anything.

Sorry for the rambling but I am just kinda all over the place right now.

KET_2010's picture
Joined: 08/13/11
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Lol I'm from April and one of the other mommies thought some of the girls from April were late Smile Okay anyway...

Try not to stress. If you are pregnant, stress isn't good. Since you got a faint positive, I would wait maybe 2-3 days and retake one (or even this evening, or I would since I'm impatient lol) and if you get another positive, to call your dr, just so you're sure you're pregnant. And I've had very messed up cycles since my son and I've taken tests just to be sure as well (although mine have been negative).

As for the other girl in your office, ignore her. It's not like you planned to get pregnant around when she was getting married...it's probably a whole "Stealing thunder" thing that she sees it as. If she gets mad, she can get over it (lol not trying to sound like a douche). It's not like you're giving birth on her wedding day (although if you did it may be really funny lol). Smile

Congrats on your secret pregnancy! I will say I'm slightly jealous because I still have baby fever pretty bad lol. Smile

mwilliamson006's picture
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Oh wow! Well if you are then Congrats! Take a breath, and know that you are not alone. Hugs Girl!

sandy1007's picture
Joined: 09/30/11
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Well it's a definate. I took a digital and it said I was preggers! Excited but still scared. I'm going to call the dr today and unload my 100 questions. You would think I'm a first time Mom with as many that I have. Lol

mwilliamson006's picture
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Congratulations! I hope everything goes well for you and baby!

RedCherry's picture
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Congratulations!!!

I know it must be scary, and this is a fear of mine as well, but you'll do great!

As for the chick at work, forget her. She shouldn't expect people to live their lives around hers.

KET_2010's picture
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Yay! Congrats! That's exciting to be expecting again! And hey, I had a bazillion questions with my 3rd lol. Even if you just had a baby you forget things lol! Remember, pregnancy brain! Ha ha.

ashleye15's picture
Joined: 08/25/11
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Oh wow, congrats! I'm sure your mind is reeling with thoughts and questions, but you'll do great. I'm sure it will br hard at first, but remember that Dalton will have a best friend and playmate for life! Hope you're feeling ok. xoxo

cannycane76's picture
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wow, hun! that is a surprise. i have no advice for you other than to say that i would contact my doctor as soon as possible. i hope this works out well for you both and that this is really good news.

SuzyQ16's picture
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Congrats!!

blumoonbaby's picture
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Congrats what a surprise!

shellyk8's picture
Joined: 11/23/09
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Wow! So exciting;) You will be fine. As for the girl in the office, tell her to stop thinking of herself.....gggggrrrrrr! Some people are so selfish!