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This morning at 10 dpo. So very bummed the damn test couldn't be any more stark white either not even an evap. I had a temp drop this morning too so I should have just saved the IC. I have never had to ttc longer than 5 mos before and that was after my 2nd m/c the next two times I ttc I got of the first month trying. I'm so freaking over all this crap , tired of worrying when or if I'll O, tired of timing bd'ing and making it work when dh is tired, and I'm super freaking tired of being disappointed every month. I was so nauseous last night I had to take a phenergen and I started believing this could be it. My dd has strep and has thrown up so it might be from that but my throats not sore and I feel okay really. I know technically I'm not out but in the past if I was pg I would get a light bfp by now. So on to Zjune it is.

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I totally understand how you feel.
And I am so sorry for the bfn.
I wouldn't give up just yet though.
10dpo is still real early.
I do get what you mean about getting early bfp's but truly... Don't give up yet.

Huge hugs to you love... You're not alone.
Xxxxxx

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Thanks Liz, though its nice to have someone understand I hate that you have the unfortunate luck to be able to understand. If that makes any sense at all lol my brain's fuzzy today. I feel like a heel complaining at all since I am lucky enough to have a big family already but the heart wants what the heart wants. Gosh I am depressing today!!!!

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Tiffany!!
Don't ever feel bad for feeling bad!
We are all here to support each other!
Whether you have children or not the elusive bfp that you so desperately want is soul destroying when it doesn't come.

It will come though sweetie.... For all of us....
My main bit of advice us if you need to vent rant scream cry then do it... Because it's healthier to let it out then keep it bottled.
And we are all here for you my sweet!!
I promise!!!!!
Xxxxxxxxxx

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dont give up yet! With DS I had a bfn up until day 11. then on day 12 it was bfp!

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"PatienceW" wrote:

dont give up yet! With DS I had a bfn up until day 11. then on day 12 it was bfp!

Yes, don't give up! Maybe this little bean is just a late bloomer!

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I'm with the other ladies.. give it a couple more days, hun.. None the less, I'm sorry you didn't get the result you wanted today Sad (hugs)

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Sending ((((hugs)))) and your not out yet!

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I'm sorry about the BFN its always so disheartening to only see one line come up. Don't count yourself out yet. Wishing you all the best!

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I agree with everyone, BFNs always suck to see when you are hoping for that lovely second line. Hope it comes soon!

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So sorry Tiffany! It's so hard to wait, but I know it will come for you!!!!

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Another bfn and starting spotting tonight. I'm mad at the world and feel like throwing a tantrum though it would do no good! I feel like this should be easier like I'm due for an easier turn at things after losing Noah the way I did in April. I know God doesn't work that way and He has a plan and I'm trusting that another precious baby is part of that plan. It's not easy to always keep the faith though month after month. At least I get an u/s to check my lining after O this month and dh gets (has to I should say) a SA.

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I am so sorry sweetie
All I can really do is tell you again we're all here for you.
Huge hugs sweetie.
You're little one is just waiting to come to you.
I know it will happen soon.
Xxxxxxx

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:cry: Tiffany.. I'm so so sooo sorry. It's not fair.. And yes, it hurts terribly. But you are so very right that God has His plan for you and your family. We don't know what it is or when things will happen the way we want them to so badly but they will happen as His intends for you. I contine to pray for you every day that you find the peace and continent to not only live your plan but to enjoy it as much as possible. Some days will be hard.. Some easier.. But each day with what we have is a gift. You, my dear, are a gift! I'm sending all the blessings and peace I possibly can your way, sweetheart. And of course the strongest "BFP ASAP!!!" vibes I can.

Just an FYI - I'm totally in love with your signature picture!! That's one happy little sweetheart!!

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Thanks Liz and Adriana you two are the sweetest! AF arrived today and I'm actually doing better today than I was the past two I guess the waiting and not knowing was wearing me thin. I'm feeling super crappy AF isn't being nice but I hope that's a good sign that my lining was nice and thick this month. Hopefully no one else follows me to June!

Adriana I appreciate your prayers very much. And yes Ariana was very happy with her cake lol.

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I am so sorry :bigarmhug: I will be praying for you and your husband.