You mentioned the world just spinning and spinning and wanting to get off.. I personally think that, because there's stuff that just HAS to get done, why don't we stay on to get what we need to get done but it stop spinning for just ONE day so we can catch up! I think that sounds better.
Hang in there ladies!!!!!
Nidia - what's for lunch?
So true.. looks like this weekend I will be able to get things done with all these storms.. clear my mind.. be lazy after I clean. Watch movies with my loves and cuddle. Perfect
Adriana, we are going to this place called Tarragon Grill.. I am debating on what I want to get. There's this burger called the "Cowboy burger" and it has bacon, cheese, onion straws and bbq sauce.. DROOL. Lol I know it will be fattening but I've been craving a fattening burger hehe.. I may have to treat myself. But then I always get this plate called the Tex Mex.. and it's a crispy burrito type thing that has black beans, chicken, etc inside.. so yummy.
Sorry your feeling down! I felt that way a couple of weeks ago and it's hard to snap out of. Dealing with other issues when you're pregnant is never easy. I try to do something that makes me happy when I feel that way and sometimes it's just a matter of time before you feel good again. Hope you have/had a good lunch!
Sorry you ladies are feeling down. I felt that way as well and they put me on Zoloft. They said that carrying around a bunch of stress and crying all the time isn't good for baby OR me. I've read that Zoloft can affect the babies lungs - keep them from maturing the way they're supposed too. I mentioned this to my MW and she said that I'm on a half dose of Zoloft and that it's really rare for anything to happen when I'm already so far along. I talked it over with my DH and he was okay with me taking it. I do NOT want anything to happen to her, but the MW explained some things that could happen if I didn't get my depression under control and those aren't good either, so..
I hope you ladies get everything straighted out. Nidia - I thought I had a good friend. We hung out a lot. She got a new boyfriend and POOF, I never EVER see her. It makes me so mad because I've done a lot for her and sometimes I just wanna hang out, ya know? She lives like 4 miles from me but she NEVER has any time for me. Her boyfriend moved in with her and he even TOLD her to go hang out with her friends and she's like nooooo. Then she'll call me up and ask me for favors. It just pisses me off more and more when I talk to her. Oh AND she called me the other day at like 5 in the morning (I was at work) and she wanted to "catch up". I'm like seriously? You call me on your way to work and that's the ONLY time during the day we can talk?? So, I know how you feel about feeling like you're losing a friend. I told DH the other day that I just don't have any friends and he said go make more. *eyeroll*
I think my strong urge to hide in bed is my way of getting away from the world. LOL. It doesn't help me finish the things that need doing though...so in that way it's bad. I have my moments where I'm 'OK', but then something small will happen and I'll freak out. It's like I'm constantly on the verge of freaking out.
I'll see what my midwife says today. She'll probably just say it's normal. Perhaps she can suggest some herbal remedies to try first. We'll see.
Last night DH went out to the pub and I was home alone. It was then that I realized I don't really have many friends anymore. I have my high school friends who I could call anytime and chat with...but we all have families and jobs...we just aren't close. My one single friend who was good for just coming over to hang out now and then is working out of town so I don't see her much. Sigh.
I don't have but 1 true friend that I can call on a whim and BS with.. he'll come over at the drop of a hat if I need him to. But he's the only true friend I have.. I have a couple people that I call friends but have their own lives.
But, I'm a hermit, homebody, happy to be by myself kinda girl. DH is the same way.. so while we do our own things, we do some stuff together. But mainly just do our own things. I think he knew I was a VERY independent woman.. and am I'm cool with him being an independent man.. so long as the house and kids are taken care of, do ya thing, babeh!
I've become quite a home body lately...but I do love me a nice dinner at a pub once in a while.
Another issue I'm having is mommy guilt REALLY bad right now about pretty much everything...even going out on my own without her makes me feel SO guilty.