Feeling pretty darn worthless...

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Feeling pretty darn worthless...

OMG, I can't do ANYTHING. I hate feeling so worthless. My kids want me to read to them, and it's like I'm too nauseated/exhausted to even read a 5 page baby book. I hate, hate, hate feeling like I'm letting them down. Sad My poor DH is essentially doing everything... Thank goodness for him. Smile I'm to the point where the zofran isn't even really doing it for me. I really hope this follows my first pregnancy and peaks next week at around 9 weeks. I need to feel like I'm back on the downhill slide again and I've made it past the hump. :help1:

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:comfort: Awee honey Sad I'm soo sorry! I can say that it's getting a TAD bit better.. it's mostly mornings now and not so much in the evenings where as before, it was ALL day!

Hang in there, girl.. I wish I could help take it away! Sad

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I think I can, I think I can, I think I can... Hahaha. I remember feeling this exact same way with DS1... Just utterly worthless. I was seriously starting to get depressed before it finally eased up. I soooo wish I could see the bean. I know that would be the motivation I need. Twelve more days!

I have lots going on in those 12 days. My dad's spine surgery is Friday (yikes, but yay at the same time). My SIL is in town visiting, so we'll probably see her this weekend, I would assume. Friday is also my last day of work at my store, then Monday, I start at my new store. I am excited and dreading that at the same time. I'm mostly excited to meet the people that I'll be working with when we finally move into our "forever" home. I'm excited to get out of my store which is really in the ghetto... We constantly have shady people in the parking lot begging for money, looking into car windows to see what they can steal, making drug deals, etc. I'm excited to get into a location that is more small town, less insane. Smile But I do dread the 1-hour commute I'll have to make twice a day, especially with this nasty m/s.

Either way, lots of big stuff happening within the next 12 days, so hopefully it'll fly by and I can see my beanie!

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FLY FLY FLY by time!!!! Mrs. Mary wants to see her bean!!!!!! SmileSmileSmile

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I'm sorry! My nausea has settled down some thank goodness. Hopefully it does for you soon too (:

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Give yourself a break! If DH is willing to help, then let him. It's temporary! It is hard to miss out on our kids cause we feel bad but we have to take care of ourselves too. I have to keep looking forward because if i think about what is happening now I start feeling down!
Hang in there!
Also, I noticed zofran makes me really tired! Maybe that is why you feel extremely tired? I had to start taking it at night and not during the day because I just cant be that tired during the day.

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:bigarmhug:
I know how you feel, I'm spent by dinner time! I feel terrible, I have 3 kids to take care of but I'm soooo tired and useless.

Hang in there honey we'll feel better soon!!!!

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just wanted to let you know you're not alone, my house is destroyed, the t.v. has become my kids new best friend and my husband.... well... I'm sure he'd like some attention but goodness sakes some days it takes all I have to put one foot in front of the other! My m/s got better around 8 weeks, but has made a slight come back this week... don't wanna get ya down... just keepin' it real lol

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Hang in there. you are doing great mama. Smile

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Hmm.. I can't really say my m/s is gone (okay, it's not gone AT ALL) and I don't have bursts of energy.. BUT as a whole, Im up every night cooking dinner and doing laundry and I remember just a few short weeks ago...crying on the couch because I was so miserable and I couldn't do ANYTHING. It'll get better Smile