Nidia - Thinking of you! I hope your bleeding turns out to be nothing.
Adriana - The earliest I tried was right at 9 weeks on the dot. I got lucky and found it pretty quickly that day. He moved around a lot in there, though, so while the hb might be on the left one day, it was on the right the next, etc. There were days where it was pretty hard to find it until maybe 10.5-11 weeks. It started being easier to find after that point.
Nidia - I agree, hope it's all turning out to be nothing!! Brown is good!!! How are you feeling??
Mary - I'll talk to DH about it. That would be good to just listen. :)
I know! I just had my first m/c in May and it was completely devastating! i had no idea how hard that was going to be. It messed with my emotions so much we decided to ttc right after that and it took me 3 months to get pregnant again.
I am already passed the point I m/c the last time and I am POAS all the time to see if the line gets darker, I am so parinoid it will happen again. It sucks!!!!
I feel the same way. I'm on the April board and you can just see how many posts I had freaking out about some twinge or discharge or whatever. Every time I pee (STILL) I examine the toilet paper. It's hard. It's stressful. People tell me not to stress...but I just stress regardless. I hope everything will be fine. With all of you.
I had 2 m/c's over 3 years ago and I still examine the tp, pregnant or not, lol. I will always be thinking about it I think. :(
OMG, I do this too... even when not pregnant. It's force of habit now, I think. When I was pregnant with DS2 and had bleeding, I had to force myself to just wipe straight down after I peed, drop the TP in the toilet and flush... If not, I would analyze the TP, any discharge I left in the toilet, EVERYTHING. Horrible.
Originally Posted by Pixacious
Aweee you guys! I'm so sorry you're haunted with your pasts. :(
Let's hope everyone gets to their milestones safely and happily with beans in tow! :D
Adriana, I meant to tell you.. I bought a doppler two weeks ago. So.. I was a little past 10 weeks. I'm a ...uh.. a chubby person, but it's now almost 13 weeks and I still can't hear crap. Well, that's not true. I can hear MY heartbeat EVERY time! I think the uterus is starting to expand up though, I've been feeling really ...big down there..lol. So maybe it'll be easier to hear soon. My MW said since I have a "little tummy" (little..haha) it'll be harder to hear and she won't even try it until 14 weeks because all it does is freak people out.
Like me. I DID have an appt last week so after kinda getting bummed about the whole not hearing a heartbeat thing (and really trying to remember that it's hard to hear on bigger women)... I was ecstatic when they did an u/s at my appt and I saw my little bean doing karate.
That's too cool! I think the hardest thing for some of us is patience. :lol: We'll all get there.. just enjoy the journey! :) 14 weeks is nothing. ;)