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    On Valentines Day that my sister is pregnant again!!! She struggled to conceive for 5 years with her first and gave birth to a little boy 10 months ago and now she is due in august with her second. We live far apart so we don't get to see each other very often.
    Is it weird that I am kinda mad that she posted it on facebook before telling me? She hasn't called me in months and I am always the one to contact her. It's been like that most of our relationship. She is still friends with my ex husband on facebook if that tells you anything about her.lol
    I told her at 11 weeks on the phone that I was pregnant with baby #3 before I announced it to anyone. She said I was crazy and that it better be a girl?!?!? SO... should I say the same thing to her, not say anything at all or just suck it up and say congrats.
    Sorry this turned into a vent, but I'm prego and kinda annoyed by this.
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    I'd totally be annoyed if I found out my sibling was expecting on Facebook. Aaaand, just the kind of person I am, I'd tell her the same exact thing she told you.

    Okay, no I wouldn't. I'd be annoyed, but I'd try to act happy for her, even though she didn't act happy for you.
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    I would definitely tell her it hurt my feelings. I mean, she's your sister!!


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    Jessica- It makes me feel better you think the same way! Kinda made me laugh!

    Nidia- ya, she's my sister but sure doesn't act like one! I'm almost glad I will never be having 2 girls so they don't do this to each other. I think brothers are different! Girls are just emotional.
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    I don't have any sisters and I don't want any! LOL I've got friends that have sisters and both of them are close to me, but I see what they put each other through and I'm like noooo thanks!
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    Well, I didn't grow up having a sister.. lol but I have one now and I love her to pieces.. hehehe.. we are also decades apart.

    Anyway, I know it can be very painful. The hormones don't make it much easier either. I know my boys will be great friends. My brothers are good friends and I always envied them growing up.
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    double post, sorry.
    Last edited by nidia; 02-14-2013 at 03:07 PM.


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    I actually have a few sisters (some stepsisters) don't talk to any of them really. We all live in different states so I'm sure that doesn't help!
    I think having 2 boys is great! They get over stuff really quick. I just really hate drama! I had enough of it in my life already!
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    Everyone always tells me girls are harder to raise! Samantha, you're in for it if it's a girl LOL jk.. I know it will be wonderful either way


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    I totally would have been annoyed too. That said, I've written my brother off...he's such an a-hole. UGH! Siblings! I wish I had more to chose from because the one I have is a failure as a sibling.
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