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    Default Long vent.

    So I tried to write this yesterday but the server of p.o went down or something.

    So yesterday was a total bummer day for me.

    I was complaining to my sister in the morning about my ex (DS's dad) because well... lets seee
    Tyler= DS (Riley)'s dad
    Patrick= My DH
    David=Tyler's dad
    Lisa=David's wife

    So Lisa is having a baby. She is just about due and they don't know when the baby is going to be born. Patrick's birthday is Friday, but we are doing a party thing on Saturday at a lazer tag place (I know... we're kids haha). I asked Tyler last Saturday if we could borrow Riley from him for Pat's birthday (we switch every week and he has Riley this week.) He said that they still don't know when the baby is going to come... but the baby takes precedence over the birthday. Which I think is total bull! Step-dad birthday vs. Aunt being born. B-S!!

    Anyway. So I was already upset about that and started crying. I calmed down and then when I got off the phone I got a message from Tyler trying to get Riley's SSC and Birth Certificate. He's trying to apply for a charter public school here in town. He said he was taking the stuff in tomorrow. I told him I wanted to be there. He wouldn't give me any information and we got in a huge fight. He's a big control freak and whatever... ALL THE TIME> For the last 4 years he's been difficult and awful. Anyway... So I totally felt like he was trying to take over and push me out of a big event which by law (custody agreement) he isn't allowed to.

    So I had a horrible day thinking about that. And thinking about how we are going to get the money because we are going to have to go back to court because WAY too many problem are coming up and we can't ever agree on anything.

    Then... last night... I talked to my sister... She told me she had bitter-sweet news. She gently told me that she's 8 weeks pregnant. I started to bawl. It's not that I'm not happy for her (and i told her this). I told her that I'm sad for me but I'm happy for her. She said she felt like a insensitive jerk. I told her no! That she isn't and that she should just be happy the whole time...

    One of my biggest regrets was that I wasn't excited to be pregnant at first.

    So anyway. I had to vent... And whatever.

    Thanks for reading.
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    I'm sorry, Maddie. I hope that David realizes he's being hurtful to you. I would want to be there for something big like my child schooling choices, etc.

    I know how you feel, totally know. Exactly how you feel.. I've been there before. It's ok, those feelings will rise up and they need to so that you can move on I hope you start feeling better soon!


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    Aweeee, hugs girl. That's a lot of crap to happen on one day. I'd have been very upset if I were you too! That's a lot in one day.
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    I've had my fair share of bullying-type arguments with Liliana's SD and they are NO fun!!! I can see both points, actually, and there's no win-win. Everyone holds a small piece of "this is more important!" in their hearts, depending on what the issue is and who is effected. Sorry you're struggling with him, girl, but I COMPLETELY feel your pain!!

    I ended up in the courts with SD for 6 YEARS before he finally accepted that I was NOT going to back down for what was the good of my child. Some guys are just pathetic.

    I know in your heart you're so very happy for ANY pregnancy.. from a friend.. family.. you name it.. but it still has to sting a little when someone tells you that kind of news. Just know we care about and support you, ladybug!! You have my continued prayers for a little one in the VERY VERY near future!!!
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    I've had my fair share of bullying-type arguments with Liliana's SD and they are NO fun!!! I can see both points, actually, and there's no win-win. Everyone holds a small piece of "this is more important!" in their hearts, depending on what the issue is and who is effected. Sorry you're struggling with him, girl, but I COMPLETELY feel your pain!!

    I ended up in the courts with SD for 6 YEARS before he finally accepted that I was NOT going to back down for what was the good of my child. Some guys are just pathetic.

    I know in your heart you're so very happy for ANY pregnancy.. from a friend.. family.. you name it.. but it still has to sting a little when someone tells you that kind of news. Just know we care about and support you, ladybug!! You have my continued prayers for a little one in the VERY VERY near future!!!
    Adriana --> <-- DH, Markus
    Liliana Nicole ~ 05.13.03
    Sam ~ 10.31.09
    Bram Alexander ~ 04.10.13

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    Great big hugs to you!!!!!!
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    <3 So sorry you're going through so much crap all at once. I hope things turn around for you soon.

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    Thanks Ladies. I appreciate your support. It's hard because IRL I really only talk to my DH about stuff... and I think he gets worn out of me.

    Yesterday sucked... I met my DS's new aunt, Sophia. She is so tiny and adorable. I started to try while picking Riley up. I know that with May coming up so soon it's going to get harder and harder to come visit this forum. :/ Sorry if I disappear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maddz View Post
    Thanks Ladies. I appreciate your support. It's hard because IRL I really only talk to my DH about stuff... and I think he gets worn out of me.

    Yesterday sucked... I met my DS's new aunt, Sophia. She is so tiny and adorable. I started to try while picking Riley up. I know that with May coming up so soon it's going to get harder and harder to come visit this forum. :/ Sorry if I disappear.
    Completely understandable, girlfriend. But please know you're welcome here ANY time!!
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