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nidia's picture
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Terrified

I'm terrified that at my first prenatal appointment, next week, they won't be able to detect a heartbeat Sad Gosh, I feel dumb but I just keep thinking the worst thoughts! Just needed to vent, ladies. That's all.

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Joined: 03/15/08
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Same here, believe me. Sad My appointment isn't for almost 3 more weeks. I'm hoping I'll be able to hear the heartbeat on my home doppler before the appointment, haha. I found it at 9 weeks with DS2, so there's a chance since I'll be almost 10 weeks by the time I have my appointment.

nidia's picture
Joined: 06/08/07
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I really wanna order one.. lol But I know it's too early now!! Ugh why do m/c cause scars?!?!?!

ILoveMyMiniMe's picture
Joined: 12/11/03
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I think the feeling you're having, sweetie, is so normal it's not even funny. This morning, I looked down to the floor for something and my tummy was sticking out so bad that I couldn't see my feet from a vertical position.. Having TOO much fluid can be a bad thing.. and that's all I can think about. What if something is wrong with little bean??

:comfort: You're not alone, honey.. We're all in the very early stages of "loving my little bean" and that can be very scarey. What that tells me, though, is that we're AMAZING moms or moms-to-be because of the compassion we have in our hearts for the "small" things in life that mean so very, very much.

I'll have you in my thoughts and prayers for the next couple of days that you find peace with your tiny gift! :bighug:

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Joined: 06/08/07
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Aww, thank you so much Adriana that means a lot to me and so do your words!! Make me feel so much better.

Did you go to your appt already!?

ILoveMyMiniMe's picture
Joined: 12/11/03
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You're MOST welcome! Whatever I can do to help bring you some peace, I'll do my best. Smile

I'm sitting in the car, waiting for DH to get here :teethchatter:

Joined: 10/02/11
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Nidia - I had a tubal last go around. I was having pains this time in the same place where the tubal was. I told DH it doesn't look good and when we went in for the ultrasound, there was baby! In the right spot, with a heartbeat just going to town! I was TERRIFIED, but it ended up okay. When I went in for my second ultrasound, I thought the same thing. The baby had died or something (I had no proof to back that up) but there s/he was again! Just fine! I'm sure yours will be too. It's hard waiting that long for an appt, but your baby is just fine!

nidia's picture
Joined: 06/08/07
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Thank you so much, Jessica!! All of you ladies really really help calm my worrying for sure.