awwww... Adriana! I feel for you! This is exactly how I am feeling right now. It's hard to keep up with everything these days and I feel like I am not getting enough help. I wish they understood what it is like to walk around with a big belly and be tired and try to do all the daily things that need to be done. By the end of the day, I'm just DONE!!! Everyone just better stay away or they are going to get it!!!
I hear ya! I'm impressed your DH does laundry - mine hasn't done laundry since he was on his own in college!!
But you do have to ask. They just don't know to do things. I think most guys have a higher level of dirt tolerance and just don't notice when things get dirty because to them, they're not dirty enough to clean yet.
As for your daughter, do you have some sort of chore chart or duties for her to do? Not too late to start! She could have a list of things she has to do every day/week and if she doesn't do them, she loses privileges like tv or something maybe?