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aquaprincess00's picture
Joined: 11/11/07
Posts: 24
Bad news

I haven't been posting much, but wanted to update. I had my first appt today and they didn't see a heart beat. Looks like baby stopped growing around 9 weeks and I'm almost 11 weeks. We're heartbroken and in shock, especially since this is our 2nd miscarriage this year.

Wishing you all a happy and health 9 months.

A_Dawn's picture
Joined: 09/10/13
Posts: 100

Oh sweetly, I know the feeling. In less than a year I had 2 m/c (2012-2013). I think I have made peace with it when I started seeing it as two angels in heaven that are watching over their parents and brother. I wasn't giving, up and here I am with my 4th pregnancy (1 live birth, 2 m/c, and one on the way). Follow your heart, give yourself time to accept and heal from this. :bighug: I know how though it can be on you and your DH, talk about it with him that can let him let some hurt out too. It was hard on me, but DH had a harder time expressing it. The talks and crying nights helped both of us. So sorry for your loss.

ashleye15's picture
Joined: 08/25/11
Posts: 330

So sorry to hear. Lots of prayers going your way.

AnnaRO's picture
Joined: 07/06/08
Posts: 7033

Oh no!!! I'm so sorry!!! I was really hoping we wouldn't have any losses on this board, it's so heartbreaking! :bigarmhug:

knhoward's picture
Joined: 04/22/08
Posts: 999

I'm sorry for your loss.

Joined: 01/25/08
Posts: 12

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there were some thing that we could say to make it better, but I know there is not. Praying for you.

Mommato2boys's picture
Joined: 09/29/13
Posts: 27

So sorry for your loss. Praying for you me your family.

Joined: 07/29/13
Posts: 451

I'm so extremely sorry for your loss. I've had a missed m/c also. Before my first daughter was born I carried to 10 weeks and found out the little one had died at 8 weeks. I wish I could give you a real life hug.

What I can say is; let yourself mourn and let yourself feel it. Bottling it up only makes it hurt worse. And Aurora has some great advice about talking it out with your DH.

Don't lose hope. We're all praying for you! :bighug:

Joined: 07/21/07
Posts: 110

I am so sorry for your loss, sending prayers your way.

NicholeC's picture
Joined: 06/09/08
Posts: 284

*hugs* I am so sorry. Praying for you and your husband. I can't imagine what you are going through.