We will find out. If my DH had his we we wouldn't with any of them. Me I'm a planner and I want to know. Also with all the drugs with csection I don't want any surprises. I'm hoping for a girl since this will probably be it.
So...I just found out that my midwife is only going to order one u/s at 28 weeks to check on the baby.
I told DH that...it would still be a surprise if we found out at 28 weeks after waiting so long...
But then the other side of the "argument" is that there's only about 10-12 weeks left after that so why not wait lol.
Then I get on here and I see Kristin's comment about extra incentive to push the baby out...well...perhaps that's true too.
Maybe I need the extra incentive, especially since this will be my first labor.
I'm 110% team green. DH is about 80%. He'll end up going with what I want. We bought mostly gender neutral stuff with DD and my friend is giving me a bunch of boy clothes. We'll be fine either way. I really want that extra excitement at the birth and it'll be extra reason to keep the names to ourselves.
I wanna be surprised but to anxious not to know to buy girls clothes or not
I agree, Kristin! We found out with the last 3 and I'm excited to wait for this one even though I could NOT wait to find out with the other 3! Part of it might be the fact that I'm still in slight denial that we're having a fourth and knowing the gender will make it more real, but either way, I'm also excited for that delivery room experience.
We found out with DD. I was WAY too impatient. Since this will be our last baby, I want to experience it the other way. Also, I know it will be torture for my friends and family.