What are your thoughts?
What are your thoughts?
I used to be alright with the thought of it when we were first married. We were both still kindof in party mode. My only requirement was that he didn't blow a bunch of money. I never had to worry about it though because he wouldn't go anyways. But since we have had children, etc, I have become less and less comfortable with it. I don't feel like strip clubs have a place in our marriage. I wouldn't want to put myself in a position to be approached by men (especially naked men), and I definitely wouldn't want him in any similar situation. I am his, and he is mine **strong hints of possessiveness here** :p
never had to worry about it, discuss it or anything else. It's always been an automatic no.
My dh doesn't go often, but it doesn't bother me.
Almost every time my DH has gone, it has been to be a DD for his buddies, so in that case, I'm totally OK with him going. He's kind of a boy scout (which annoys him when I call him that, since he was in 4H growing up lol!) and really has no interest in watching anyone take their clothes off if its not me.
DH has never had an interest in going to strip clubs or bars or clubs. He never even liked parties in HS. The only time he would drink was when it was a few friends and they were at someone's house and they'd play video games too. I mean he went to parties a few times in HS but it wasn't "his scene". Plus he usually was DD for people.
But even if he liked going to strip clubs I'd tell him no ha ha. I don't want him to see anyone else taking their clothes off in a sexual way (I mean who am I kidding, he went through boot camp so obviously he's seen others take their clothes off...lol men!) He only needs to see me like that!
I'm not comfortable with it, thankfully it's a non-issue for us :D
Heck no! Out of the question.I'd be outrageously mad. I mean come on he's seen me naked.What's he gonna find outside that he doesn't have at home.I don't think he'd like me to go and see naked men,but thank goodness that he's never done that. I'm not worried about that, I know him. He's a very hardworking,responsible man.When he wants to go out(whether its movietime,restaurant,dancing)he wants me to tag along :) and I'm not saying that it'a something bad.Everyone's marriage life is different,and come to different aggreements.In my case,my answer would be no that would not be a thing on our list.Big No NO
My DH doesn't go to strip clubs. I know he would not want me to go to one so that is why he does not go. I am a very open minded person and to each their own....but it is just not our bag.
It depends. Am I with him? :p Honestly, my husband has never been but I have. :lol: