8 DAYS!! (xp)

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Starryblue702's picture
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8 DAYS!! (xp)

Sorry, the title of this post will most definitely throw you off... but I haven't had sex in 8 DAYS AND I'M GOING OUT OF MY MIND!!!!! I don't know what DH's problem is this past week, but this is insanity! I haven't gone this long without sex since DD was born THREE YEARS AGO!!!! He's either falling asleep because "he's tired" or (like last night) he's b*tching at me because I wasn't being "firm enough" with the kids and their bedtime, which of course, when we're fighting it kills any chance of sex!! I'm so freaking mad right now I can barely see straight! And of course my mind starts to wander to places that it shouldn't... like, if we're not having sex there must be a reason... is he not attracted to me anymore? Is there someone else? I know I'm reaching, but still... for a couple that has sex at least 2 or 3 times a week (and sometimes more since I've been so randy this pregnancy!) it's just making my mind go crazy! Every time I try to talk to him about it, he just gives me all of the b.s. excuses... the kids are still up, he's tired, blah blah blah... I'm just so frustrated. I really hate it when he tells me that he's tired, because there's no way that he could possibly be more physically worn out than I am at this stage of my pregnancy, and I'm still wanting and needing some physical attention, and it's like he couldn't care less. Sorry this is so long, I just had to get this off of my chest...

Joined: 02/20/11
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I know this post is serious, but you crack me up!! Do you have any toys to help you with your physical needs? I'm sure he'll "come" around soon enough but sometimes a girl has got to take care of herself!

Starryblue702's picture
Joined: 04/06/11
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Lol yes I do, but there's only so many times I can get myself off before it starts to get depressing... I mean, isn't that one of the perks of being married, is to have someone that is basically contractually obligated to have sex with you?!?! Too much "alone time" and I start to feel like a pervy teenage boy!!

TLotus's picture
Joined: 08/28/10
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I had to giggle at the first few sentences too. Go labido!

Do you think maybe DH is a little stressed out regarding the upcoming new arrival? Stress might be affecting him..KWIM?

Starryblue702's picture
Joined: 04/06/11
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Tamara, I think once you're on your 6th kid, there's really no unknown... and really, what's one more lol?! I don't know though, if something is stressing him out, he's certainly not telling me about it, which bothers me, too! Again, isn't that part of the perks of being married, is to have someone to talk to about whatever might be bothering you?

ashamom27's picture
Joined: 07/06/06
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You need to smack some sense into him! A lot of guys wish they were in your DH's shoes!

Summer05's picture
Joined: 09/18/05
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Did you get some yet? Wink ITA with Asha, lol. Maybe beat him about the head with your boobs ROFL

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