Family drama!!!

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Family drama!!!

I am kinda really pissed and upset. My Aunt and my cousins are fighting and I am not really sure the whole story, so I won't get into that, but now my grandma has told my mom that if I invite my aunt to my wedding then they arent going to come!!! I used to be close with all of them but since we all live far away we dont talk that much, but the point is I dont want to choose between my cousins and my aunt. I dont feel like I should have to.

Neither of my cousins have said this to me and my aunt hasnt said anything either. My plan is to send invites to all and let them deal with it, but at the same time I don't want them to come and there be drama. grrr

What would you ladies do??

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Joined: 02/08/12
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I would try to resolve the fighting as much as possible before sending the invites. You really don't want the fighting to continue up to you wedding day... it's a tough call though!!! Hugs~!!

Summer05's picture
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Boooooooo on them! Sorry u r dealing with this. That's 1 of the reasons we had a beach wedding overseas Smile

Starryblue702's picture
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I would sit them all down and let them know that this is your wedding day and you would appreciate it if they could all act like adults for one day, put their petty sh*t behind them, and be there for you on your special day. If they don't end up coming, then that's their loss. I know it's hard because it sounds like you want them all there, but if they can't act like grown ups then you don't need the extra drama. Just remember that no matter who shows up, you're marrying the love of your life, and nothing else matters!

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"Starryblue702" wrote:

I would sit them all down and let them know that this is your wedding day and you would appreciate it if they could all act like adults for one day, put their petty sh*t behind them, and be there for you on your special day. If they don't end up coming, then that's their loss. I know it's hard because it sounds like you want them all there, but if they can't act like grown ups then you don't need the extra drama. Just remember that no matter who shows up, you're marrying the love of your life, and nothing else matters!

This.

Their fight is their problem. Tell them you welcome everyone to the wedding as long as they can behave themselves. If they don't come, that is their problem. Your wedding. Your day.

Joined: 02/07/12
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well I talked to my cousin and she confirmed what my grandma said.. I'm kinda sad that it has come to this, but I am going to invite them all and hope for the best.

It sucks but they are stubborn people so there is nothing I can say or do Sad