"how are you feeling?" VENT

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"how are you feeling?" VENT

I am so tired of Dh asking how I am feeling, how did I sleep, etc. He knows I am miserable. I told him to stop asking me those questions. I am really tired today, I had to get up EVERY hour last night to pee. My stomach is so sore from having contraxs on Thursday, it hurts to move. So when he ask me why I was so crabby I got pretty nasty and blew up at him. I yelled why I was so crabby:
-I am tired of having contrax that mean nothing and are not helping my body progress towards labor.
-I am tired of getting up to pee at night avery 1-2 hours and sleeping like crap
-I am tired of having 2 outfits left that fit (I am sick of buying maternity clothes and refuse to spend $$ on more)
-I feel so fat and miserable. I am hungry all the time no matter what I eat.
-I am so exhausted that I can barely do anything. Total opposite of Ds pregnancy
-My stomach feels like it is going to split open
-I just want to know if the baby's kidneys are ok and there are no other problems
-I AM JUST MISERABLE!!!!!!

He got really mad at me and I told him if he didn't want the truth than stop asking the question!!!!!!!

If you got this far thanks for reading!! LOL

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Aww Robin I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way... and that your DH is being a total d**che-bag!! Mine sort of does the same thing... but yet doesn't want to help make it better! With me, he knows that my back has killed me this entire pregnancy, but he continues to ask what's wrong whenever I moan about it!! I'm like, are you kidding me? You know my back hurts, why are you asking me stupid questions when you could just be rubbing my back for me!?!?!?!

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"Starryblue702" wrote:

Aww Robin I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way... and that your DH is being a total d**che-bag!! Mine sort of does the same thing... but yet doesn't want to help make it better! With me, he knows that my back has killed me this entire pregnancy, but he continues to ask what's wrong whenever I moan about it!! I'm like, are you kidding me? You know my back hurts, why are you asking me stupid questions when you could just be rubbing my back for me!?!?!?!

glad I am not the only one LOL DH is usually good about helping and stuff. I am just so sick of him asking!!!!

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I'm on the same boat... he keeps asking how my bp is doing? I've told him over and over again it wont go down till parker comes out! Are you holding him? then NO its not better!!!! He has done really good about being here at night but when he stops by during the day to see me he takes a nap!