What are you most worried about?
I feel extremely lucky that what scares me the mist right now is the thought of the epidural!
Being pregnant forever- going a whole 2 weeks over and not having my LO until November 15th or something.
A NAME. I just don't feel connected to any one name. I feel like that's horrible. We had kind of settled on Rylan. Yesterday we discussed Caden. I feel like both may ring a little too much like Evan with the ending sound. I'm just not in love with any of them Ugh. My baby boy needs a name!
Trust me, if an epi is in your birth plan, you will gladly welcome it compared to the pain of the contractions! Trust me, the IV that they give you when you're admitted hurts much more than the epi... it's not bad at all!!
I just want to make it to the hospital in time! This being #4, and the fact that I tend to dialate up to 5CM without having one contraction... I just don't want to have a car baby lol! Other than that, I've been around this ballgame three other times, I'm not worried about much else!
Lets see...biggest worry two weeks ago was baby`s kidney. But I have calmed down about that now. Last weeks worry was my high BP and although it is still high I know it is not pre-e so I am calm about that right now as well.
I worry about the spinal and the healing from the c-section.
I had an epi last time when I was contracting and you're right there was nothing to it. However I was distracted by contractions which were worse. This time I think I'm having the epi a lot sooner. I can't wait til tomorrow to find out exactly what the plan for me is.
I really want to labour at home for longer this time (especially since I live across the street from the hospital!) but I'm worried that I'll *think* I'm a lot further than I am , and I'll still only be 2 cm when I get to L&D! That is so depressing for me.
I hope to make it to 4 cm at home so that when I get to the hospital I can get the epi right away!
Coming home with them and being completely overwhelmed.
Complications, and needing to be admitted to the hospital a 45min drive away. I DO NOT want to be that far away from DS.
The Doc keeps aying the baby is coming early. I don't know how she knows that, but I just don't think she is right! LOL!
My worry right now is having the labor stall and ending up with the C-section. I think it will be hard to recover from a c-section.
i'm most worried about how my son is going to handle this whole thing. my little guy is the center of my universe - how do i have TWO kids be the center? how do i love two kids? (i'm an only child so the whole siblings thing is so new and a big worry for me)
I worry about the epidural. I have had them all 3 times but have had horrible exsperiances with them. The last time was INSANE! The muscles in my lower back are so strong they have a really hard time getting the needle in.It was insane to hear the dr feet sliding aross the floor from pushing to get the needle in. She told me she had never had trouble getting an epi in before.I ended up telling her to stop that hurt worse than the contractions. After the nurse calmed me down and convinced me to let her try one more time she was able to get it in and I was happy but MAN it hurt like hell.
I also am a little concerned since this is my first time laboring with DBF.My ex is a worthless peice of crap but was totally amazing and in tune with what I needed in labor and never had to be told and I just worry that DBF wont have that. He hasnt done this in 9 years so he is so darn nervous and almost like doing it for the first time so that worries me alot at this point.Thank goodness my mom will be there to guide him along lol.