Any other stay at home mom have 99% of the responsibilities around the house and with everyone who lives in the house. I swear sometimes it only feels like Robs responsibility is to go to work and make money.
I do the:
make all the meals 90% of the time
deal with bed time routines 95% of the time
keep the house tidy and do the major cleaning of the house 95% of the time
get everyone ready when we have to go out
make a grocery list of what we need
make Robs lunch for work ( I get up earlier then him 85% of the time to make his lunch)
feed and change kays diaper 98% of the time
This is all I can think of right now. But when I cook dinner I do the dishes, when he cooks dinner I do the dishes. I do ALL of the laundry, and if by chance he does a load I end up folding it so really I can't really count that as doing the laundry cause I do all the hard work.. the hated work.
I understand that as a stay at home mom that I am responsible for most of the household duties and chores, but he gets to come home from work relax and eat the dinner I cooked for him, 75% of the time he "forgets" to rinse his plate, and then he does stuff on the computer well I am cleaning up from dinner and dealing with Kay. Everyone now and then he will help out and even let me "sleep in" Meaning he deals with kay changes her diaper and feeds her. Blah I don't even know where I am getting at with all this. I just needed to get it out and I felt like this was the best place and maybe someone could relate to what I was going through.
I appreciate him working hard at work and he is a great father I just sometimes feel under appreciated and am worried once again how I am supposed to do all these things with an infant and a 1 year old plus go and pick up joshua and stephen from school.
Sorry it's so long..